I had a conversation with a male firend about relationships. He mentioned that girls who constantly have men/boyfriends walking in and out of thier lives will never find true love.They are going to be unhappy, cause they will never tully fall in love with someone.
Now, I just stumble on a video where a guys says exactly the same thing. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G2gi3-T_kOY
I was shocked. I always thought that these type of girls always had the upper hand but apperently not. Why do men project one image( as they prefer women that easy and with many men) and then claim another( they dont like women who have been with many men)? Why is it women like the one I mentioned above end up unhappy? Please explain?
2006-12-23 00:57:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well i dont know about other men but this is what i think about it.
I like to think that love is a one time phenomenon. I believe that true love is possible n that Once a person loves some 1 that person can never be out of love.
IF a woman who has a definite idea of what she wants .. n wat love means to her and if she believes too that its a never ending finality .. falls in love with me .. I`ll be proud to have earned her love .. cuz of how important her love is to her.
On the other hand a woman who is confused.. has a lot of failed relations..whch doesnt even bother her much .. she fals in love with a lot of jerks who walk out on her... How can i respect her love? she has no concept of love.. her lov will not be as valuable as the girl in the 1st case.. I wont feel as good about this 2nd girls` love
N I do want to feel good about what a girl feels about me. I want to feel that I have been the exception of her life..
If she can love just any 1 wats my value? any 1 else would be equally good for her.
we like gals who r easy only when we arent thinking abut a long term relationship. for a good stable relationship I`ll always look for a girl whose love I can value.
2006-12-23 01:10:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because when a man wants to settle down and have family, they will seek for a family type girl, that can be honest, confident, a partner and a perfect wife. A girl that is into many boyfriends or that has had a lot of relationships, are just girls to have fun with, but won't take them seriously. Men are possessive and want there women to be theirs, not everybody elses. It is the nature of men. They will go out to have fun with easy girls, but when they settle down, they will only take into consideration the "serious" ones.
2006-12-23 01:06:33 · answer #2 · answered by Big&Tall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, Men like girls that are easy for fast easy fun but if men want to be in a true relationship then yes we love women who have not been with a lot of guys, no man wants to be with a tramp. Why would a woman want to be with a guy who has had a lot of partners? It's almost 2007 and women still don't get it.
2006-12-23 01:00:49 · answer #3 · answered by mrfoxhorn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because those generally ARE NOT THE SAME MEN! And people change their minds too. I, for example, am planning to save myself for marriage. I get sick when I hear women talk about how many guys they've slept with, etc.
I think that the reason women like that don't end up happy is because they don't take dating seriously enough. They get desensitized to the feeling of being with someone. They don't do it so much because they want a boyfriend or anything, but because they need one to keep up appearances or their self-esteem. Anyway, try not to worry about it. Men really don't like easy (AKA slutty) women. Good luck!
2006-12-23 01:02:36 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just my opinion...but a big part of the problem is in the sentence "these type of girls always had the upper hand". As long as men/women view relationships as who has the "upper hand", they'll never work out. If they work toward a common goal - marital bliss, financial security, etc....they'd probably stand a great chance of staying together.
2006-12-23 02:26:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
babe its nothin like that
u never got stuck with any one coz u never felt for them
well just go with the flow babe
u can't fall in love coz u feel like its ur time ab
it has to happen by it self
u need to feel it
so probably u havent felt that way abhi and tahts y u never got stuck
u r the kind of a person who no's wht she wants and when u know that the person is not the one u just move on to the next one
i guess
so stop feelin low as u a great person and u sure to find the one but when its the right time and the right person
cheers
2006-12-23 01:32:50 · answer #6 · answered by ghost13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a relationships where a female constantly is in romance there is nothing wrong with that. She is searching for love and may find it one day...it's a matter of speaking when she sleeps with all the Men she dates...that's her prerogative and you missed out that's tuff cookies.
Sooner or later, she will find someone that really grabs her and not behind the butt, but behind the heart
I know of a girl right now that sleeps with all the guyys she dates and I dated her myself and she is really a nice girl, but she just hasn;t found Mr/ Right, but she sure does love sex...lol
2006-12-23 01:01:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men like easy girls because they normally give it up fast.Good example,a lion in africa attacks a herd of zebra knowing he will at least get the young and weak.He does'nt have to work hard.Now if he wants the real meal then he has to be more tactical and smarter then the rest of the lions.
2006-12-23 01:07:42 · answer #8 · answered by charles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of each and every of the words guy and lady do no longer describe the gender of the guy ( lady and male ) interior the previous adult males have been people who make the determination and if the determination replaced into brave or does not oppose the traditions or regardless of sturdy element the male did he's a guy in any different case he's basically a male no longer a guy ( the be conscious guy is an adjective to describe the male who does something reliable something reliable that makes others comprehend him ) and the be conscious lady is basically to describe the Femininity of the female no longer the rest
2016-10-05 22:36:55 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's an EXCELLENT question, not to mention important. It likely that these women have learned somehow, someway that they aren't satisfied with a guy who doesn't "thrill" them with bad behavior and mis-treatment. That somehow they don't deserve a good solid guy who treats them properly. It's not too hard to learn bad lessons and bad lessons learned in childhood are very difficult to unlearn. In a way, these folks feel they are in love but it looks more like an addiction to me. It's darn near an epidemic.
2006-12-23 01:06:07 · answer #10 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋