I have a boyfreind called Olly and he is like tottally hot and everything BUT one of my best freinds (whos a boy) has like tottally been hitting on me and i dont like him in that way but i still want to be best freinds ive turned him down a few times but he kept getting at me so i agreed to go back to his place. But things got out of hand and we slept together and i think i might be pregnant, i dont no how too tell olly or my freind what should i do?
2006-12-23 00:51:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
are you old enough to even be having sex? you sound very immature !
2006-12-23 00:55:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How stupid is that. You deserve all that you get. You don't like him that way but you had sex with him anyway. You are loose and have no morals. Your boyfriend should walk away from you as he will never trust you again. You are not responsible enough to bring a child into this world. All you care about is boys and how hot they are. Next you will be on the council list for a house and on benefits. You are just typical of the stupid mentality we hear about so often these days, Why didn't you use protection? You are reckless girl, you may finish up with a disease and an unwanted baby. You should be ashamed of yourself.
2006-12-23 01:03:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First find out if youre pregnant, next you have to Olly that you've cheated on him. You wouldn't have cheated if a) you weren't really into this other guy and b) if you really loved your boyfriend. Olly will be upset but you have to tell him the truth because he deserves that. You may lose him but be honest!!!
2006-12-23 01:08:15 · answer #3 · answered by redneckshorty84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got yourself in a mess. Why? You sleep with someone whom you don't like except has a friend and now you will be link to this person for life. What do you want to do? that is the first question you need to answer. then you will know what to do and how to tell. It starts with you first. Are you planning on keeping this child? if yes. then Honey step up to the plate and tell the truth, if you are sure who's it is and its not Olly's. then tell him first. what ever decision he makes for him, you need to respect that.Don't make him feel bad. Then you need to tell the father to be and what it is you want. But remember he has options to. rather to be involved or not to be, with you and baby. you have options to, how involved do you want him to be with you. You cant choose for him how involved he wants with the baby, he has rights and can fight for them, so don't set up self up to cause unnecessary problems, be flexible and fair. if you are not planning on keeping, then say nothing to nobody do what you have to and learn a valuable lesson here and get birth control and only get out of hand with the one you care about in your heart and be responsible and honest with your self and others, because your actions can hurt someone you truly care about
2006-12-23 01:21:16 · answer #4 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but sometimes I can't tell when questions like this are asked in jest or not. It sounds like something you'd see on the Jerry Springer show.
Anyway . . . if you're serious about this, you need to just tell the father of the child. Forget that other dude. Good luck!
2006-12-23 00:55:37 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you do need help.
Firstly find out if you are pregnant, then deal with things from there.
Olly needs to know the truth so he can dump you and lump this boy.
2006-12-23 00:54:38 · answer #6 · answered by NM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, first of all, tell your friend to back off. second of all, it's better to tell Olly. otherwise he will find out on his own (your pregnancy) and get even more mad
2006-12-23 00:59:42 · answer #7 · answered by Konrad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So are you pregnant by this boy or the other boy who date raped you? See your questions.
2006-12-23 01:05:32 · answer #8 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
set alone for few days and see what you need on future
2006-12-23 00:57:47 · answer #9 · answered by moony s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dna test is the only help for u
and u should be more stable
2006-12-23 01:55:36 · answer #10 · answered by athina68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now you should be more concerned with your spelling and grammar.
2006-12-23 00:53:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋