My ex dumped me about three weeks ago b/c she said. 1) she didnt have the same feelings towards me as before, 2) she thought my love was too strong and that was freaking her out , and 3) she thinks that i should date other girs and she should date other guys b/c if we really loved each other then we'll get back to each other..
i have a gut feeling that is she is now with one my friends, don't you think he would have the guts to say 'dude, she has these feelings towards me', or at least tell me because isnt that what real friends do? i just feel now that they are both fake b/c of this
i dont have anybody i can trust talking to about this b/c of trust, i feel that if i tell one of my buddies, then he'll tell somebody, and eventually she'll find out how i feel, and start spreading rumors about me,
my question is , is it okay for me to block both these people out in my life and ignore them, i know its hard to move on after being w. her for 1 yr, or are there other ways of handling this
2006-12-23 00:54:07 · 4 answers · asked by sadbuttrueprince 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetheart, I will take some time to cool you off, there are more girls in the world.
Loves hurt but you will always come better out of it..
2006-12-23 00:56:43 · answer #1 · answered by AlinaU 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That situation stinks!
It sounds like you need some time to get away from the situation and she needs some space. Otherwise, this will just be in your face all the time and it is way hard to get over someone when that is the case.
So, here's the plan...
1. Make yourself busy. Set up things to do with friends, family, projects for yourself, etc... That way you won't be thinking about the situation 24/7.
2. If you do eventually see them out together, say something like, "imagaine that" all nonchalant. Because it will NOT help your macho image if you try to make them feel guilty, etc... And who knows, maybe there will be a babe in the wings that sees your cool cat performance and wants you for herself.
3. Congratualte yourself, because now you are free to pursue a relationship with any one of a zillion girls out there that is bound to be more into you than this girl was. And in 5 years, will you even think twice about her anyway?
Hang in there!
2006-12-23 09:11:15 · answer #2 · answered by artichoke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not very mature to "block these people out of my life. . ." but a guy does what he has to do to make it through life. BTW, REAL friends don't break trusts.
2006-12-23 09:19:31 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u sure she is seeing one of ur frenz? its cud b sum other guy too. in dat case u cud b misunderstnng ur fren..dat cud cost u his frenshp. so make sure whether or not ur fren is d guy in qstn..ok. well the gal seems disinterested..n c is straight abt it . thn i think u shd let go of all...leave d past..n move ahead..thr wil b other betr gals 4 u.
goodluck
2006-12-23 09:03:06 · answer #4 · answered by clear_truth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋