i have fallen in love with a girl . But i really don't know it is love or just attraction .Please help me in finding it's really a love or some thing else.
2006-12-23 01:08:38 · 15 answers · asked by poo_tycoon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To me the definition of love is "the spirit of self-sacrifice." If you love someone you think of only what is best for them, not yourself. There is no "I" in love.
If you enjoy being around someone. They make you feel good. That's attraction. And that's not a bad thing. Just don't confuse it with love. When you love someone, you give yourself completely. You lose yourself. And it's HELL! Unless...
the other person does the same with you. Then it's PARADISE.
2006-12-23 01:16:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me explain it to you in a way that carry's weight. When you decide to stay with your mate for life, your gonna make sacrafices and you both will work hard for your dreams to come true and live the American Dream. When you can sit down and say you have been married over 20 years and you both are going strong, then you can say you know what love is about.
2006-12-23 01:15:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
an intense feeling of deep affection>a deep romantic or sexual attachment to someone>a great interest and pleasure in somethin>affectionate greetings is love.i also felt in love with a guy when i met him in jabalpur in india when i went to represent my state bhopal for the basket ball match he was really dam cool and very handsome but i couldn't say him anything don't just become like me that u din't said anyhting just say her everything which is there in ur heart for her.After that if she agrees it's good if she doesn't agrrees then just forget about her and find other love .Ok just try to say her.
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2006-12-23 01:20:23 · answer #3 · answered by Kittu s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a state of mind where you arfe totally focused on the object of your love, think about her when you're apart, and would take extreme measures to ensure her happiness. In fact, you would even risk your own safety and happiness to ensure hers. You find her increasingly beautiful the more you get to know her and you lose interest in other girls. I don't know if that's a universal definition, but that's the way I feel about my wife. I will love her even in my grave.
2006-12-23 09:24:33 · answer #4 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my frind it comes to know in ur care for her or her care for u ...by many way u can see whether its a proper love or just a sexul temtation ....see that this does not happen most of the guys mean this but at the end land up in problems so hang on give urself some time to settle u will only come to know with the sollutions ...
2006-12-26 18:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by shiva k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be very happy and right now your so high in love that nothing could bring you down
attraction fades and love is for a life time look to your heart and you will know
2006-12-23 01:15:54 · answer #6 · answered by lady of the hearts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to the Oxford American Dictionary:
Love is an intense feeling or deep affection.
Love is a deep romantic or sexual attachment to someone.
Love is a great interest and pleasure in something.
And so on, and so on.
2006-12-23 01:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My deffinition of love-Don't say you love someone unless you really mean it.
Love means to unconditionally accept someone for who they are and to always want good for that person.
Not just wanting to make out or anything thereafter.
Thats not real love.
Don't tell someone you love them without meaning it.
Without wanting to be with them or help them out for life.
Friends can love.
Parents can love.
Lovers can love.
Just make sure it's real.
Because you might love them.
But they might not love you back.
and not to mention wanting whats best for them even its with you or not.
2006-12-23 01:10:54 · answer #8 · answered by scenekid13542 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
L=Lot of Fun
O=Ocen of Joy
V=vally of Happyness
E=End of problems
2006-12-23 01:10:58 · answer #9 · answered by ICRA 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are 3 different types of love
Family
Friendship
Sexual
2006-12-23 01:10:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋