I'm 2 7, I'm still not married, I've yet to even have a girlfriend. I mostly end up dating girls who turn out to be not interesed in me and it's getting old and I'm tired of it, I really need some help.
2006-12-23 01:07:15 · 10 answers · asked by J-Boy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
- Go to church . . .
2006-12-23 01:08:59 · answer #1 · answered by Mystro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered internet dating? I did it for a year and had mostly good experiences. I met an awesome guy and we have been dating for a year. I think it opens you up to so many people whom you would never meet otherwise. It also gives you a chance to screen women and decide which ones you want to spend time dating. It's nice to get to know someone a little before meeting. If you find out you are not at all compatible, it's easier to just end it online than to meet and find yourself physically attracted to a person who is not right for you. I like match.com best, but I have also been on yahoo personals. I didn't like eharmony because they match up who they think is good for you and you have no option to look for yourself.
2006-12-23 09:12:08 · answer #2 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay - first of all - learn to flirt and be romantic. Practice kissing and touch and conversation. Really care about what the other person has to say and listen with your heart and soul as well as your ears and eys> Pay attention!!!!!!
Relax and be honest and open - ask the women you meet what they look for in a man/partner. Too many people date based on pop psychology babble and end up missing the mark.
Open your mind to all possibilities - usually we discount people based on appearance. Check in with yourself - do you really want a partner or do you want a showpiece. (lust versus real feelings of connection)
Good luck with your search - and remember that fairytale love is a delusion. Relationships take work, commitment and self reflection. Be gentle and kind.
Did I mention kissing - very important.
2006-12-23 09:15:40 · answer #3 · answered by goddess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a women out there for you weather you find her in a store,bar or even in a book store don't look to hard she may even be under your nose 27 is still young yet you will find some one sweet for is for you and she will be the one you are looking for so if you like some one you have to take a chance and ask her don't wait to be asked or don't hesitate go for it and soon enough you will have kids and a loving wife at your side!!! so the best way to go is on the yahoo singles you will find girls your own age and in you local area and you may be suprised, there are alot of other dating sights like,www.singles.com, www.kiss.com,www.americansingles.com,www.singlesites.com and alot more so i hope this will help and it may get you started good luck!!!
2006-12-23 09:14:07 · answer #4 · answered by hellokitty_19_2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if uve found out that some girls uve dated dont seem to b interested in u ..u are lucky..coz i think its great to have a woman who is interested in u ,who likes what u are,rather that some one who u are mad at and not the same from her..always think that the best days are yet to come in life...and by the way u will certainly find the woman who likes u..
2006-12-23 09:17:15 · answer #5 · answered by zafran_zahir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably getting toward this point now. But I'd say put away childish lust, and think in terms of broader lifelong compatability: look for a mate who is responsible, intelligent, kind, and shares your values.
...This advise may or may not suggest certain places for you to go, like church or back to college.
2006-12-23 09:10:56 · answer #6 · answered by Johnny Corndrink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find one with a flat head and big ears
2006-12-23 09:09:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
reevualute your lifestyle, i usually dont tell people to change who they are, but maybe you need to get out and do more things.....go out live life to the fulliest have fun meet new people....a good relationship cannot be rushed it will happen when it happens......good luck and get out and enjoy life
2006-12-23 09:11:30 · answer #8 · answered by bshelby2121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. she will come out of the blue. just make sure you get her before she is gone.
2006-12-23 09:13:02 · answer #9 · answered by guessgizmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have the money I recommend this place http://www.aforeignaffair.com
2006-12-23 09:10:04 · answer #10 · answered by mrfoxhorn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋