she said forever?

Question

well actually she said never
she said she'll never break up with me on the first day we were goin out
does that mean shes might be a little too attached to me for an actual relationship
or wat?
im really confused
me n her have been gettin along pretty well
but its just kind of weird like now i feel im commited till the day i die
should i say thats too much?
or just let it go?
im really confused plzz help me!!!!

Answer 1

When she says never she is talking from the POV of being happy. She also wants to make you happy. Casually bring up the subject and if you feel it's too serious- let up a little bit. I'm 17 and my boyfriend says he wants to marry me. That's too much for me too. I don't want to feel blocked to other options. I don't know what I want out of life yet. Remind her that this is a casual dating relationship and not an extended engagement.

Answer 2

Its one of those things women say in a romantic outburst.
Relax. Just enjoy the relationship... cause nothing is forever.
If you are really getting along well, one day you might find you do want to make a longterm commitment.
If things dont work out, you can always go your separate ways - irrespectable of what anyone of you once said or did.

Answer 3

She was swept up in a whirlwind of infatuation when you first started dating. How does she feel now? Is she more realistic?

You have to be careful how you broach this subject because you may unintentionally hurt her if you make it look like you are looking for an exit strategy when all you really have is commitment phobia.

But a nice long talk should straighten things out.

Good luck to ya, bro! I'll be pullin' for ya!

Answer 4

Forever is a long time, most people don't like to think that the average human life span is only eighty or so years. Grandiose terms like "never" and "forever" are ideals they don't work well when describing feelings and relationships. I suggest that you ask yourself: "does this relationship make you and your friend happy, does it improve and enrich both of your lives?"

Answer 5

Let it go. She was just expressing her feelings towards you and the relationship. Also, she was being an optimist. After all, would you have rather her say that she just wants to try you out until someone better came along? To her, she wants this relationship to work, don't you?

Answer 6

take it day by day. She's just madly in love with you and this is a good thing. She'll open up to you completly, but if you hurt her, it'll be worse for you. THe longer you are in a relationship with this woman, the better.

In time, she'll lighten up her grip on you. It's all good.

Answer 7

She probably think you knew about her habits. She might break up so many times with the other people before you. To let you know you are a keeper for her. Are you willing to get hurt?

Answer 8

Just let it be what it is. That was probably her way of saying she had an attatchment for you. But reltaionships are two sided things. Just see hopw it works out. People say thing to make the other think they are specail. Maybe her lttile speech was clumsy, that's all....that's what I think it was. She was trying to impress you.

Answer 9

cmon! if u reallu luv her then wats the problem! and she must be emotional at dat time ! so she just said it it doesnt mean she is going to stik 2 u for her whole life.

Answer 10

Don't take it so close to heart. Forever only means forever when you actually get married. If it scares you to be "forever" with this person, don't marry her. But don't dumnp on her just because she is so into you NOW.