I have known this guy for about 5 years we had been attracted to each other before something came in between us. We stopped talking etc. but everytime i saw him i would catch him looking at me. This has happened over entire time i have known him. He is a member of a club that i also belong too and i see him prolly at the least 3 days a week. There was a meeting of this club the other night and he was talking with a friend of mine and as i went walking toward them he completely ignored what they were saying to say hi to me. I said hello back and went on to talk to my friend. Then last night he was at a holiday party for this club as well as myself, i was standing with two other people that he knew when one of them asked him a question he turned his body as to facing us and looked at me and smile and answered the question. I didnt ask the question so why did he answer while looking at smiling at me. Should i consider this interest???
2006-12-23 00:41:58 · 21 answers · asked by Paige 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The "something " that came between us was my ex husband. He went all psycho on him and he almost lost everything because of it (meaning his jobs etc.) so it was best that we had not been together although we wanted to be together. We did tell each other back in May of this year that the interest was still there, however it was a busy time for both of us and i didnt seem him again until recently.
2006-12-23 01:00:53 · update #1
He's interested in you and looking for encouragement. If you want to take it to a higher level show him it's OK to proceed. You don't have to rip your clothes off just talk to him, flirt, give him the impression you're interested too. I think he'll get the idea because he's hoping for it.
2006-12-23 01:01:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say that his body language shows interest. I wonder if the "something" that came between you before is the reason for this passive approach. If you are interested, make a move even a subtle one will probably do the trick as he has made the first effort.
Life is way too short to not enjoy every second you can. Grab onto the good stuff & take a risk!
Good Luck : )
2006-12-23 08:50:15 · answer #2 · answered by novemberraininmysoul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is definitely interested in you. No doubt about it. If I were you the next time I see this guy I would walk right up to him and ask him how he is and strike up a conversation. Ask him what he's doing this weekend and if he's free ask him does he want to go see a movie or something. He is trying to let you know he is interested by the things he is doing and you taking the initiative to let him know you are too will speed things along.
2006-12-23 08:46:26 · answer #3 · answered by JNR3078 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is going out of his way to make himself known to you, then yes, I would consider it interest. Just because something came between you does not mean that he doesn't care for you anymore.
2006-12-23 08:46:13 · answer #4 · answered by Marillis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is definitely interested in something. It could be friendship-but more likely he's into you. Maybe he's shy about it and is trying his best to let you know. If you're interested back you need to let him know. If he won't take the initiative- you need to(If you don't want to lose him)
2006-12-23 08:45:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should. this is a sign that he is interested in you. talk to him, ask him out, become friends again. he could be the guy for you. dont pass up this chance.
2006-12-23 08:46:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to wear a low cut top, swallow your pride and just go talk to him....to get confidence remember the Special Air Service motto "Who Dares Wins"....Go for it- whats the worst he can say "No"?? If he says no its his loss!!
2006-12-23 08:49:17 · answer #7 · answered by naughtiest_nurse_of_em_all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should. Go for it, and do it NOW, if you've any intention of ever taking a serious interest in him.
2006-12-23 08:44:53 · answer #8 · answered by Feinschmecker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life
2006-12-23 08:44:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, he likes you. Call him and say hi. Just chat on the phone about anything. Have fun! :-)
2006-12-23 08:49:32 · answer #10 · answered by sparetom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋