what is the most effective way of getting over a broken relationship?

Answer 1

Time is the most effective way. But as you are waiting for time, I suggest removing anything from your apartment that reminds you of him. You don't have to throw them away, but pack them away in a box and put that box in storage somewhere, preferably not in your house. This is symbolic in one way, you are removing things that remind you of him and thereby removing him from your life. But psychologically, those things are triggers that will cause certain emotions in you. If you remove those items that are emotional triggers, you will find the healing process is much easier.

Answer 2

While some say don't jump into another relationship, it doesn't hurt to get out and start dating. That's what I did. I was devastated and literally stayed in bed for a week. I couldn't focus and constantly thought about him. My friends encouraged me to get back out and start dating again. It was hard and I didn't have much fun the first few dates, but I made myself go.

Within a few months, I started dating a really great guy and we have been together for almost a year. The rough part was that in the beginning, I worried a lot about him breaking up with me for no apparent reason. Sadly, I still think that way sometimes even now, but it's getting better.

Also, I have been seeing a counselor. I saw him every two weeks in the beginning and still see him once a month. It has helped me to work through some issues I have about being in a relationship, as well has helped me see that he didn't dump me because I am a bad person or somehow drove him away.

Don't lose hope--things always look better with some time behind you.

Answer 3

The most effective way is to buy some glue and repair it. Having shards of broken relationship scattered on the ground is dangerous cause a shard can get stuck in your foot and cause an infection.

Answer 4

Go out and explore the things that you havent seen before. Look at the bright side, you have more freedom now. Surround your house with yellow colors and try to talk to other people alot. Sure you need some time alone, but don't be stuck in your room forever. Grab your trusted friend and tell her everything that pains you deep inside, she don't need to give you advice, she just have to listen so you could let it all out... After every morning, you'll have better wake ups and prettier face in the mirror.

Answer 5

getting over a broken relationship can be very difficult depending on how deeply u were involved and how important it was to you.
I think just think about what went wrong and what mistakes u made and learn from them.TRy not to repeat them.
dont jump into another relationship just cuz u had a breakoff n u feel lonely..that will be a mistake again. dont try alcohol.
just be calm n think about it. what doesnt happen wasnt meant to happen.

Answer 6

There is really no definitive answer to that. The process will, however depend on you. Some people would take on new relationships pronto, while others would wait. But either way their acts would either aggravate their condition or enlighten them. If depression persists, consult your psycho-therapists.

Answer 7

spend some time alone prove to yourself that its ok to be just you and not half of a couple spend a little time figureing out how much of the break was your fault what could you have done different be honest . get comfortable with who you are on your own learn from your mistakes and move on

Answer 8

Time is a great healer, wait before you start another relationship.

Answer 9

Time heals and thats about it... Just keep yourself busy. You still must live through all the emotions.

Answer 10

Ok I have heard it is to get under someone else. But I dont know if it works or not. Good luck in all you do!