the thing is tat im too caring, im so sick, i got insomnia, depression, and always loose my temper.. once we quarell, i punch my husband face and we like kind of wrestle,, the thing is im his second wife,, and b4 we get married,, we broke up 4 1 month,, and i start dating other guys,, but he keep calling me and wanting to marry me.. and due to his empty promised, and sweet talk i agreed to marry him... we have dated 5 years and its a long journey 4 me to wait the final words he said "marry me"... im ok wen he go back home to his wife and kids cos his wife didnt care less or much bout him... even we went 4 our vacation 4 1 week his wife didnt even bother to call.. so my prob is i care too much bout him till watever he do wit his wife i want to knw.. n tat means EVERYTHING... but now i n him haved agreed tat no question should be asked to him wen he is wit his wife n kids... u see, since the day i marry him i bathe him i cut his fingernails, i clean his ears, i shave him.. am i too much?
2006-12-23 23:56:55 · 11 answers · asked by D'yah Musshyyo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He may not marry you because you are immature. Look at how you write!! Maybe he wants a real woman.
2006-12-24 00:00:16 · answer #1 · answered by Rick R 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Boy are you immature; you cant' control your temper, you can't express your thoughts well; your writing is terrible and your a controlling crazy person.
If any women bathed me or cut my fingernails I'd get a body guard.
Attitudes are good on the Jerry Springer show, but only a loser would allow someone with attitude act the way you do.
The way your acting is not the way a mature women acts. And if he lets you act that way, he's enabling you and he is at fault too. This isn't normal or healthy.
Hopefully your joking but if your not, I hope your boyfriend dumps you and gets protection, and you get counciling because your a nut.
Please do not have children. You too are really out there.
2006-12-24 00:03:09 · answer #2 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes dear,"you are too much", I had trouble understanding if you have married him or if he is still married to another woman....bottom line...he is being treated like is a baby, not a grown man with responsibilities.....please ask yourself the question"What's in it for me?". Seems as if this is not a healthy relationship to have, perhaps, you may needs some counseling. Good luck
2006-12-24 00:07:38 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married to my husband for 13 yrs. been together for 14,but even though I love him with all my heart,I would never cut his toenails,bathe him,shave him...etc..."unless he was physically unable to do those things alone" You need to start taking better care of yourself & let him do his own ****!
2006-12-24 01:52:59 · answer #4 · answered by baby_gail68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are acting like his maid, caring so much and getting so less in return.he wants fun on both ends. he will not leave his family and not you too. break up with him immediately, and find someone worthy of your love.
2006-12-24 00:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes you are really too much.
try to behave like a Wife.
then your problem will get solved
2006-12-24 00:10:23 · answer #6 · answered by shon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you punch your husband in the face and call it caring? by this defination i'm a sissy...
2006-12-24 00:44:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have yourself committed. But not to him.
2006-12-24 00:00:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, ur his maid wife, just like my nanny
2006-12-24 00:00:59 · answer #9 · answered by vio_prince 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No..you are too little (in brain matter)
2006-12-24 00:47:52 · answer #10 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋