if i just broke up with my boyfriend last night... would it be stupid to go to his christmas dinner party and expect to get back together and everything to be fine... would it be stupid to go, what if we get into a fight in front of all his family?
2006-12-23 23:49:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why the hell would you break up just befoore xmas and then wonder what the ramifcations would be if you went to a family gathering
2006-12-23 23:55:44 · answer #1 · answered by free2chat_tou 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It wouldn't be stupid to go if you were invited ,,,, I would use your own source of transportation though if things went sour and you wanted to leave ,,,, Don't place yourself in a position where you have to depend on him for anything ,,,, If you should get into an argument then you can simply leave and won't have to depend on him to do this ,,,, If you don't have a car then have the number of a taxi service readily available ,,,, Whether you and him reconcile your differences and get back together remains to be seen ,,,,That's up to the both of you ,,,, What you said in your post is that you broke up with him not the other way around ,,,, There must be a reason for it so keep that in mind too ,,,, You can control whether you get in an argument with him in front of his family ,,,, It takes two to argue and if that is the way things start going you can just simply refuse to argue and leave ,,,, Anyway go to this function expecting to enjoy yourself ,,,, If it turns out you are uncomfortable being there then just simply leave and let him make your excuses to his family ,,,, If you are truely done with each other it doesn't really matter what he says to them about you ,,,, Just don't make yourself dependant on him for anything ,,,, Hope this helps and things work out for you ,,,, Happy Holidays ,,,,
2006-12-24 00:17:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might be awkward to attend a family function if you're not a couple any longer. You can't pretend that everything is fine because well, it isn't. If you reach a reconciliation before the event then it would be OK. Otherwise you may want to avoid a possible confrontation in front of everyone.
2006-12-24 00:00:45 · answer #3 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-28 07:02:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you broke up with him last night and want to go to a his Christmas dinner it might be kind of inappropriate. After all you did break u p with him.
2006-12-23 23:56:22 · answer #5 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, if you guys broke up, then you are broken up. You shouldn't go to his x-mas dinner party, otherwise as you said you might end up fighting in front of his family. That is just embarrassing...
2006-12-24 00:14:55 · answer #6 · answered by just_D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It could go either way. Probably best to avoid the party altogether in case it goes pear shaped. Dont want to ruin your own Christmas.
2006-12-23 23:54:57 · answer #7 · answered by Lochie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't go, you had a fight, in frount of his family. IT kinda depends, was it like a really a FIGHT, or just an argument. How you guys broke up?? I'm not the one, to be telling you what to do. If you think you want to go, than go. If your really mad at him, don't go. It will just turn into another fight, if your mad at him.
2006-12-23 23:59:49 · answer #8 · answered by loverforever150 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well it just depends
does he want you to go?
why did you break up
was the break up rough..
how long we're you together, and do you still think somethings there?
and do you still like him.. and do you think you would get into a fight with him? cause its probably not a smart move if you're in doubt.
but maybe it's the best thing if you want to rekindle the flame.. there's nothing like a mistle toe to get someone in the mood for LOVE
2006-12-23 23:53:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Let your yes be yes, and your no be no. If you ditched him a couple days ago, why do you want him back so soon? Were you under stress, or was he cheating on you? If he was in the wrong he will realize it and hopefully be willing to try again.
2006-12-24 00:08:55 · answer #10 · answered by S.A.M. 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋