I have a guy that I love very much but then i came into contact with a guy I haven't seen in 5 years. The guy was so nice to me and I made it a mess because I got confused but he always reassured me he could never get angry at me. But I think he only wants to be friends with me but I can't stop text messaging him alot every day,,I want to stop but I can't because I miss him so much too. He knows that I have a guy but the guy hit me and he even asked my friend why my BF hit me and text me hello I am M I never angry at you and you go to Italy so I miss you and I hope we can meet someday I don't forget you so don't worry about this..I cut him off my IM and he even let me re add him and my blog. This time on my Blog he changed his nickname but left me a pinch and a flirt..I am so confused what can I do? But when he return to his military base he didn't tell me..anything or when he can come home again..
2006-12-23 23:56:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you were a fling to the military man?
2006-12-24 00:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off did you say that your guy hit you? Wow! O.k. No guy has a right to hit you for any reason so if i was you I would tell him to kick rocks and keep on kicking them then Text the other guy and ask him when is he going to be back and if this flirtation he is doing is strictly on a friendship bases or if he likes you more then a friend, get some more info then go from there for if the other guy likes you more then a friend then Go get you a good man and leave that no good woman abuser on the curb fro the trash guy girlfriend Hello! Dirka, Dirka! For everyone deserves to have someone in there life that's going to treat then right not treat them like a punching bag. Also it sounds to me like you already know where your heart is for if your missing this guy all the time then honey your in love or starting to fall in love with guy too and out of love with guy one.I'm guy two and let him know how you feel ask him questions and go from there like I already said. Go Get Your Self A Good Man.
2006-12-24 08:30:06 · answer #2 · answered by outlawprincess5321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have some hidden feelings for a guy you haven't seen for so long.
I guy hits a woman...shows to much of a dominance thing that the guy would actually strike you. If he done it once he will do it again. You can count on it. That's the reason I divorced my ex-wife...I was afraid it would happen again. (Of course she is a bi tch but)
You are the only one that can answer this question...I understand wanting suggestions so here is mine.
Quit texting him, leave the woman beater. See which man wants to be with you the most.
2006-12-24 08:15:44 · answer #3 · answered by Magicman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never choose to be with any one who hits you except in a playful non hostile way. In any event you have to make a tough decision its not fair to the people involved to drag this one out very long.
2006-12-24 08:01:16 · answer #4 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a bit confused....did you say he hit you??
Well, you need to get away from both of them for a few days and really think about what you want....
P.S. If one of them really hits you, then he is not worth it..simple as that
2006-12-24 08:03:47 · answer #5 · answered by just_D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gee think you might want to re-examine your life and learn that life is a bumpy road with all kinds of obstacles.
If your in love like you say then no matter what comes into your life will have any effect so think about that
2006-12-24 08:01:28 · answer #6 · answered by free2chat_tou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U shuld tell ur previous frn dat u like him & miss him a lot & want him back as a frn..!!
2006-12-24 08:08:34 · answer #7 · answered by Daksh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go to the one who hit you.
no woman deserves that
2006-12-24 08:02:32 · answer #8 · answered by h-lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit back and see which guy is brave enough to come to you first
2006-12-24 07:59:59 · answer #9 · answered by Sir. ChatsAlot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would go for the second guy .because he wouldn't hit and because sounds easy going and"i would go kong fu on his **** *** it hit".
2006-12-24 08:13:44 · answer #10 · answered by fionn hannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋