Family & Relationships - 23 December 2006

would you consider a phone relationship with a married man cheating this has been going on for a long time we have had many fights over this because i want more but he always forgives me after i tell him to go to hell i have asked him why he puts up with my insults and he says he is just a softy but really neither of us can seem to let this go and yes we have been intermite a long time ago we have known each other for 25years. should i keep this going i really don't know if i can give him up as i know i will miss him but does he care at all about me he,s the one that calls me.

2006-12-23 20:39:28 · 16 answers · asked by flossypants 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

and he /she is not remorseful of it when caught....

2006-12-23 20:38:10 · 11 answers · asked by relaxplease2005 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I posted a while back on my sister being a 43 yr old alcoholic with 4 kids. Christmas is tomorrow and ours is starting off with the usual horrible messy alcohol induced drama! My sisters bf of 8 yrs who is the father of her 3 yr old just left tonight saying he has had enough. It is hard because he is kind of playing both sides of the fence. He sees a glimmer of hope with my sister and then he doesn't want to do what he knows he needs to do and that is to work with us her family on any way possible to get her the professional help she needs. I do not think my sister can stop drinking on her own. My dad is an alcoholic who stopped 4 yrs ago and he is so worried about my sister because he knows HOW bad it can get and my dad is far from a "drama king" if you will.
Last night I was called by my 16 yr old nephew to come over. Things were bad and when I pulled up. My nephew came down and told me his mom slapped him 3 times in the face. He called her a well bad word, however......

2006-12-23 20:36:54 · 4 answers · asked by Pam 5 in Family

Well im 15 and I love my dad, but lately whenever he talks to me I just ignore him or roll my eyes. I hate it, my dad is a bad guy he's really nice and goofy like dads usually are. I try really hard to not get so annoyed by him because theres no need for it. Is it all those teenage hormones?? bcuz if it is.....it REALLY sux! ive always been his little chicken ( weird pet name i dont understand) but now i always just want to tell him to shut up. I love him, how can i stop being such a jerk??

2006-12-23 20:35:08 · 12 answers · asked by Joze 3 in Family

My guy treats me like an absolute princess & always has. We've had sex before, but I've decided its best to wait until we are married, so i'm abstinent now. Especially because of a recent miscarriage, etc. Last night he asked me when will I be ready to have sex again. I love him very much, but I want to wait. He says he misses it. What should I do?

2006-12-23 20:33:14 · 16 answers · asked by ms ambitious 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 20:32:46 · 8 answers · asked by L 1 in Singles & Dating

I have some mistletoe..................
Merry Christmas everyone

2006-12-23 20:31:37 · 15 answers · asked by crazeeladee no more 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've known people before who change their personalities drastically for another person; because they're "in love". I've maybe been guilty of it also. We all know someone who does that...and it always turns out horribly wrong. You've also been in a relationship where other people have told you it's wrong...but you don't listen because you're "in love". Now, I know better before I end up in those...your close friends and family always know something's wrong. This time, it's my little sister...she's fallen for a man who's so totally different from how she grew up. He's disrespectful. He's changed how she behaves. He's a personal-trainer who encourages her to take mushrooms daily and has started to tell her when she can and can't talk to her family, etc. Mind control? Anyway, he's menacing before I've even met him. What is there to do in this situation?

2006-12-23 20:30:15 · 3 answers · asked by Rick 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

its been too much for me

2006-12-23 20:29:53 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

In greeting they do that for me and never give up why?
How can I stop them?

2006-12-23 20:27:34 · 3 answers · asked by Mohsen J 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I havent been getting along, we argue a lot lately. Which we never use to do. I had plans since Oct to visit my parents at xmas, and I didnt really want to go for a couple reasons...my boyfriend wasnt sure he wanted a girlfriend because he didnt want to be tied down, he wanted to use my vacation as a break to think and figure out what he wants. And last because i was worried he might not care properly for my dogs.

Dogs he says he does not like. Ones we argue about. I agreed that we needed space & time to think. So Im on vacation. He is barely texting me, which is fine. But I just found out he left my dogs alone since 4pm today and didnt plan to return until the next day. They had no water and he knows they are not suppose to be left alone together, and they were. Plus he could have just asked his brother to watch them, but didnt. He was how I found out, when I asked him to check on them.

Do I have a right to be mad?

2006-12-23 20:25:29 · 9 answers · asked by nkbapbt 3 in Singles & Dating

im 14 and i dont kno wat to get him, i kno its late to be asking so i really need to figure it out! hes really into music and stuff, what should i get him??

2006-12-23 20:21:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Since we met she had a problem of going out of control when she has a drink. She becomes the biggest flirt. Since we moved in 6 months ago, she has become worse. Recently she has been getting her boobs out for the lads and at a hen night for my friend’s fiancé, she was seen kissing at least 4 or 5 guys on the dance floor and snapped at anyone who objected at her behaviour. Of course, in the morning she can’t remember anything. I gave her a lifeline by saying that if both of us give up alcohol then maybe we could work through it. I work away a lot so trust is everything. Last time we went out together, she danced with every man near us because she wants to be the centre of attention. I hate it, but when I go out she gets aggressively jealous if I speak with any other woman even an old friend from school. I have withdrawn from her completely as I decide wither or not to leave. All my friends and family say I could do a whole lot better. But I have strong feelings for her and leaving will kill me. What do you think?

2006-12-23 20:20:00 · 19 answers · asked by secret_sangreal 1 in Singles & Dating

there's my friend who is really famous in school ,has plenty of boys behind her,but i cant say she's popular with all the batchmaes...oneday in middle of some discussion she demanded me to wash her cup..why is she treating me as a slave???

2006-12-23 20:19:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

there is a girl who keeps messaging my husband, he shrugs it off as a a girl he doesnt like,he says stuff like,i dont like her,this and that.he doesnt reply as far as i know.

2006-12-23 20:19:11 · 10 answers · asked by marie ld 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I let my husband to to georgia from texas by himself to pick up his son he and his ex wife have been divorced for years now. I didn't go because she doesn't like me for some reason. I for some reason have this gut feeling he is going to sleep with her. Am i wrong for feeling this way? Also what would be some good tell tale signs that he did cheat? My friend say i will know if he comes home and is all lovey with me because of the fact he is not very affectionate with me at times. Is this true?

2006-12-23 20:18:36 · 8 answers · asked by sillymomma 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I live out west and I have been communicating via emails and through myspace with a guy who lives on the
east coast. We both have mutual friends here in the west, but we have never met personally.
Anyway, we have been flirty in our messages to one another. Not sexual, just flirty.

Then the other day I ran into one of our mutual acquaintances and she told me he was in a relationship (had a girlfriend).
Well, he just sent me another message saying he was coming out west to my city in February, and wanted to know what the weather was like here in February.
Now, I know he could easily ask one of his other friends who live out here what the weather is like.

Here’s the question!
Do you think he was trying to see what I would say when I found out he was coming to my city??
Was he trying to line up a "hook up" while away from his girlfriend?
Or.....is he just curious about the weather?


Opinions, please

2006-12-23 20:17:29 · 9 answers · asked by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

what will you do if you suddenly see your daughter at age 16 masturbating,then what will be your reaction.Thank u very much

2006-12-23 20:13:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So i've been liking this guy for a really long time, but my best friend sent my convos on AIM about hooking up with him. SHe knows i like him, and this isn't the first time its happened to me, not just with this friend.. but ALL my friends. I always tell them its fine when ever they ask if its ok if they 'hook up' with the guy i like. im always ilke, whatever, no worries, im not mad, im fine!! BUT the truth is... it kinda hurts. i feel like im being walked on all the time. People say " oh youre the best friend i could ever have!" but why do i feel so horrible if im being such a good friend?
does anyone else have these problems? if not its fine.. i just hope im not alone!

2006-12-23 20:12:19 · 19 answers · asked by foreverandalways00 1 in Singles & Dating

Don't tell me to be honest with them or your self , you only hurt them .
I think it's better to stop it and hope no one knows .
don't you agree ???

2006-12-23 20:12:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well, there's this girl I met last week at this party. She's a friend of my ex-roommate. My roommate had a party at the house because my roommate was moving far away. I talked this girl for a while. I'm getting interested in her. She came to the house for a little while each day after that. She was visiting my roommate each time, but I would talk to her for a few minutes each time. I think she's interested in me.

On the day when my roommate was leaving, that girl came by again. She came to say goodbye to my roommate. I figured this is my last chance to ask her out. Right before she left, I asked her if she wanted to hang out after the holidays. She asked me for my phone number and I saw her put it in her phone, but she didn't give me hers. She said I'll get the number when she calls me.

What does this mean? Is she serious about hanging out with me or what?

2006-12-23 20:11:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why would an X-wife call my husband to tell him his X-stepson
wanted to come to our house for christmas, considering they were devorced 27 years ago, and the step-son is grown with a family of his own, and they rarely even talked sonce the devorce.
Whats the deal here guys?

2006-12-23 20:11:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-23 20:11:16 · 2 answers · asked by ry.ry 1 in Friends

This is a really lame question..i know...So im flirting with my 'crush' and we are having semi-sexual flirty conversation...
THE BOY SAYS: I just love toying with you
I SAY : hehe
THE BOY SAYS: oh wouldnt you like me "toying"
I Say: hehe hmm i dont know...im not too
sure.........
THE BOY says: ya right
what did he mean by saying those words? is he not interested in a relationship with me? he is just "playing" me or with my emotions??or he is just simply flirting with me? im really lost here..my mind is irrational please help. i know i sound so dumb.ahh silly crushes...thank you.

2006-12-23 20:10:47 · 4 answers · asked by Feodora 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 22 year old female and my bf of 7 months broke up with me recently and I'm in so much pain right now. I never hurt him or cheated on him, he just walked away from me...and recently i saw him with another girl at the mall and they were walking hand in hand. every relationship i've been to i always end up heartbroken at the end. i dont think i can ever love someone again....

2006-12-23 20:09:22 · 21 answers · asked by SHERYL 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 20:08:15 · 23 answers · asked by Pat M 2 in Family

2006-12-23 20:06:30 · 16 answers · asked by Bruce B 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 20:05:16 · 9 answers · asked by chris t 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I are going to have our first kiss in a couple of days but niether of us have ever kissed before and aren't sure how, any advice?

2006-12-23 20:05:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex is really pissed off at me. my son her kid fell asleep on my lap and like me hes a really really really deep sleeper. i his head was strarting to make my leg fall asleep so i just pushed him off. my ex saw that and started getting pissed. shes like " WHAT THE HELL IS YOU PROBLEM YOU CANT GO AROUND DROPING 2YR OLDS LIKE THAT !!!! "
me : ~ . ~
and i say " what the hell dont act like you or andy one else didnt do that to me when i fell asleep you or any one else's lap. " then she starts cussing me out in spanish . me " its not like he can feel it ".
god what the hell was so wrong ? like i said its not like he can feel it. besides hes a tough little guy he can take.
but seriosly whats wrong with that. as you might have alreadt guessesd im not good at the parenting thing. and its not like iv been around little kids he just started visting since Augest.
is that really such bad parenting ?

2006-12-23 20:04:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating