I let my husband to to georgia from texas by himself to pick up his son he and his ex wife have been divorced for years now. I didn't go because she doesn't like me for some reason. I for some reason have this gut feeling he is going to sleep with her. Am i wrong for feeling this way? Also what would be some good tell tale signs that he did cheat? My friend say i will know if he comes home and is all lovey with me because of the fact he is not very affectionate with me at times. Is this true?
2006-12-23 20:18:36 · 8 answers · asked by sillymomma 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In regards to let i mean he went alone he said i could go with but i didn't want to cause any friction between him and his ex by me being there. I should have worded that correctly.
2006-12-23 21:05:13 · update #1
no. he could be lovey because he didnt cheat and realized how much he loved you or something like that.
you should not be concerned. he is going to pick up his son. his SON. this is who matters here. not his ex or you.
if he is a cheating bastard he will get what is coming to him eventually.
you are feeling that way probably because you love him and are afraid of losing him and therefore are jealous. Jealousy is natural but it is also not a good thing. do what you can to get over it.
unless of course he really is a cheating bastard in which case drop him like he was a hot potato!
2006-12-23 20:23:01 · answer #1 · answered by annc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he isn't very affectionate tword you generally, then all of a sudden he is. that could be a away of him attempting to right a wrong(if one occured). there is no real way of knowing unless you come right out and ask him. you do have the right to be concerned but don't let your thoughts make a problem if there really isn't one. take into consideration that he divorced her and is with you now. if the two of you truely love one another there must be a level of trust even though you feel uncomfortable with the situstion. so the only true way i see to setting yourself more at ease is to talk to your husband. ex's in general don't like whomever their former spouse is with. i know this first hand. but if you and he are open and honest with one another in general then you can solve the issue by simply talking thru it. good luck.
2006-12-23 20:28:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pull the stick out of your a s s !!!! there won't be something incorrect with what is going on and for many childrens that's a appropriate of passage with their Dad. Are you intentionally attempting again between the toddlers and their father? if so, that's very small of you. you have an extremely mean streak in you, do no longer you? Calling CPS is a depressing bastardly part of do for something so unimportant plus you're dropping the supplies which would be going to toddlers who're in authentic choose for of risk-free practices no longer in basic terms those that have a petty bitchy stepfather.
2016-10-18 22:45:58 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i come back from seeing my ex it reminds me how lucky i am now to have such a wonderfull wife now and makes me feel more "lovey"so dont missread what may in fact be a way of saying i love you so much.
2006-12-23 20:40:07 · answer #4 · answered by james o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Repeat this to yourself: His ex is an "ex" for a reason.
2006-12-23 20:24:56 · answer #5 · answered by wahkea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is this deal with LET. I would like to think he is an adult and can make some decisions on his own. You sound paranoid.
2006-12-23 20:46:33 · answer #6 · answered by Belinda 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He already cheated in your mind. Dont you trust him? If not, then you dont really have a good relationship with him.
2006-12-23 20:22:11 · answer #7 · answered by Rick R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop imagining things in your head. He is with you, not her isn't he. You are just torturing yourself.
Merry Christmas.
2006-12-23 21:26:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋