My boyfriend and I havent been getting along, we argue a lot lately. Which we never use to do. I had plans since Oct to visit my parents at xmas, and I didnt really want to go for a couple reasons...my boyfriend wasnt sure he wanted a girlfriend because he didnt want to be tied down, he wanted to use my vacation as a break to think and figure out what he wants. And last because i was worried he might not care properly for my dogs.
Dogs he says he does not like. Ones we argue about. I agreed that we needed space & time to think. So Im on vacation. He is barely texting me, which is fine. But I just found out he left my dogs alone since 4pm today and didnt plan to return until the next day. They had no water and he knows they are not suppose to be left alone together, and they were. Plus he could have just asked his brother to watch them, but didnt. He was how I found out, when I asked him to check on them.
Do I have a right to be mad?
2006-12-23 20:25:29 · 9 answers · asked by nkbapbt 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh YES!!!! I would be boiling blood if he did that to MY dogs or animals for that matter!
I sure hope the dogs are taken care of now!
2006-12-23 20:32:53 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you do really because you have left your dogs with him for him to look after and if they can't be left alone then he has done something wrong. I have dogs too and whenever I go away I am always worried and calling whoever i looking after them all of the time. Have you spoken to him? If you do it might help of you let him know that you are worried.
2006-12-23 20:43:19 · answer #2 · answered by leigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first if you had doubts about his ability to take care of the dogs you should have found someone else...second your already in a less than ideal situation but why ask him to take care of them in the first place? next... if he has already expressed he doesnt want to be tied down then let him go.
He should not have agreed to take care of them if he wasnt going to do to your standard... for that you can be upset... but honestly.... i'd be more mad at myself in this situation. I dont think either of you handled this very well.
2006-12-23 20:32:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just doesn't seem to care anymore, sorry.
Can you get a friend to take over looking after the dogs till you get back?
If a guy REALLY loved you and wanted to be 'with' you, he'd do anything to see you happy.
When you get back, you don't need to have the 'relationship talk' with him, his behaviour has done that for you.
Kiss your dogs hello and say a firm goodbye to him.
You deserve better. (and so do your dogs)
2006-12-23 20:37:56 · answer #4 · answered by lulu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duh! Think of it this way; if he can't take care of dogs for a few days, would he ever be able to care for a child? He's obviously not good boyfriend/husband material if he can't stop worrying about himself.
2006-12-23 20:33:19 · answer #5 · answered by wahkea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't seem to be supporting you at alll
I would be sooooo pissed off if my bf did that to my dogs
i would tell him that he can't watch them anymore and get someone else to take care of them like your brother
2006-12-23 20:40:48 · answer #6 · answered by Avery 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes definitely
2006-12-23 20:29:21 · answer #7 · answered by kevin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish u have something with your life
2006-12-23 20:27:55 · answer #8 · answered by Chucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would be.
2006-12-23 20:29:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋