Family & Relationships - 23 December 2006

About 10 mounths ago i used to see this guy and we have been on and off ever sinc, i always see him with another women and i asked him if he was see in her to he said no were just friends. As the mounths passed i found out he WAS see in this women and i called it off, we got back together and left her and i left my fella. The other night he walked into the pub with " her " and totally ignored me and she was looking at me and laughing and wispering to her mate, i felt so small that in the end i punched him, i wanted to hurt him like he hurt me, it feels like he has shown me up on purpose in frount of evryone.He told me he loved me then he does that, i can't understand why he has done this to me as we have always been close friends even when i called it off with him! Should i just forget it?

2006-12-23 21:20:20 · 26 answers · asked by red devil 3 in Friends

2006-12-23 21:19:11 · 24 answers · asked by dd 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy I know. We've only talked once and he seems like a really cool guy. Everyone says he's gay, but mostly all the guys. None of the guys really like him, but from what I'VE seen he seems pretty cool. I've been told he's conceited and mess of other things, but i don't think so? If he is gay, then that would explain why he's conceited (no offense). But it's weird because he's so hott, & every girl wants him. I feel pretty shity though because I should have never gone by what everyone told me. But then... one of my friends told me he turned to look at me one day, and he smiled, but let it go when he realized I didn't see him. Another time i was with another friend and he was telling me, "yea, he's gay, he even called himself one!" and when i was telling him about this one time we walked together, he was trying to interupt me, when during our whole conversation he never once did. Does anyone have an idea? Without me being too direct?!

2006-12-23 21:17:06 · 23 answers · asked by noches de leons 2 in Singles & Dating

are you having dinner today?

2006-12-23 21:15:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Had a fun night last night and know it seems a little akwaurd between the three of us.

2006-12-23 21:14:32 · 14 answers · asked by KCS 1 in Singles & Dating

Many women just hook onto the guy for the financial security and wealth, while often ignoring the inner qualities of a guy who may not be earning enough for their requirements.

The surest way to be unpopular with women at a party is to say you are unemployed or you have an old beat up ute parked outside

It seems often marriage is a convenient arrangement where the women offers sex in exchange for a nice house and opulant lifestyle-sort of an unofficial prostitute.

Any guys found this to be true?

2006-12-23 21:12:22 · 13 answers · asked by ixlinxs 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 21:09:18 · 28 answers · asked by manna eater 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 21:07:57 · 15 answers · asked by ceaser 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 21:06:04 · 12 answers · asked by CONFUSED_AND_IGNORED 2 in Singles & Dating

Ive found out that the girl that i like does not like me back. We were also work buddies, and shes leaving very soon, overseas, so i'll probably never see her again. Once she found out that i liked her, she acted very cold towards me. What can i do to stop liking her/thinking of her? How do i get over this "crush"?

2006-12-23 21:04:46 · 11 answers · asked by tao_gettos 1 in Singles & Dating

I hang around in a group of girls that used to include 2 sisters until I fell out with one of them a couple of months ago. It was a silly argument that got blown out of proportion. We are both rather stubborn, and I refuse to apologise for the simple fact that I did not cause the argument on my own, and I know that the other girl will never admit that she was also out of order, and therefore I will not recieve an apology from her. She would not be willing to meet me halfway, and I am certainly not going to grovel!!

Anyhow, since we fell out, my friendship with the other girls has not been the same. I can understand that they are in an awkward position, but I think it is very unfair the way in which I've been treated by them. I used to spend my weekends with them, and the other girl was rarely to be seen, but now it seems that every second weekend, they arrange to do stuff, and meanwhile I am left sitting at home alone, where my "friends"don't even spare a thought for me!

2006-12-23 21:04:35 · 16 answers · asked by ♥Miss Inquisitive♥ 5 in Friends

This question is for my friend, who had a 8 years of marriage life. now they are separated.

His wife separated without a clue, without talking and discussing anything, nor they had any fights, arguments or strained relationship to say so! It was perfectly all right and they were perfect couple until she broke off ( dumped him ). Both of them are not talking.Earlier my friend tried a lot to talk and find out the issue, but in vain! He pleaded and beg for forgiveness ( without knowing any reason) of break-up.

Now his ego is developing into more centric as he has exhausted all the energies and hope for unison. They are separated and he can't forget her. She is not giving the divorce, he want divorce. He want to start a new life but still remotely hope that miracle would happen.

You community, please he wants help and needs your best advise. What he must do? They are already separated.

2006-12-23 21:03:18 · 12 answers · asked by Novatna Dokic 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im 20 and my cousin is 17, and since we've been little girls there's always been this competitiveness between us. everything i got, she got. the stakes have been getting higher and higher as we've gotten older. 2 years ago there was talk of me getting a car for christmas. then her parents talk about getting her a car for her birthday (in march). christmas came and went and i didn't get my car. march gets here and she get's her car for her birthday. i get mine 3 months later. just recently i brainstorm about getting a new car, and not even a month goes by and she get's a new car. this really pisses me off because she can ask for something and get it the next day and i can't. i may sound jealous, but im not. im just tired of her biting off my idea's. please tell me what you think.

2006-12-23 21:01:25 · 9 answers · asked by tricia w 2 in Family

What does it mean if your boyfriend says he loves you, but you are fighting for the first time ever (and alot), he says he doesnt want to be tied down and do whatever/whenever and not feel bad. Then he says while you go away that youre on a break to think & decide what he wants. But we will remain faithful. Is he really just trying to make me dump him?

2006-12-23 21:01:09 · 9 answers · asked by Stacey M 1 in Singles & Dating

My current boyfriend of almost 4 years tells me that if I leave him he will kill himself. I want to leave him but if he hurts himself, I will be at fault. I want to leave him for my first love, my best friend of 6 years but I need advice on helping my current boyfriend not to harm himself =/ Should I tell his family about the situation or what should I do?

2006-12-23 21:01:00 · 17 answers · asked by lana l 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just got out of a really good relationship. and now I have more pain in my heart than I did before. I mean I was really happy with this guy. How am I supposed to get over him and my heart ache?

2006-12-23 21:00:10 · 8 answers · asked by Loveless1986 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

would you quit everything that was failing you in some way (i.e. - marriage, job, money, car, etc.) to live your dream and move to a foreign country and live and work and possibly start by living on the beach?

2006-12-23 20:58:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I HAVE GOT MANY FRIENDS. I LOVE TO MAKE NEW FRIENDS. BUT A MONTHS AGO I MADE NEW FRIENDS AND REALIZED THAT THEY BECAME MY FRIENDS JUST TO TAKE MY ADVANTAGE. SO NOW I GET SCARED TO MAKE NEW FRIENDS . PLEASE TELL ME SHOULD I MAKE NEW FRIENDS OR NO?????? PLEASE DO NOT BE HARSH.

2006-12-23 20:54:22 · 18 answers · asked by piyushaa m 1 in Friends

Show my keen interest without talking

2006-12-23 20:53:07 · 13 answers · asked by Mohsen J 2 in Singles & Dating

would you fool around with a married man???? be more than friends i mean,,,,, could you keep it just sexual?

2006-12-23 20:51:12 · 8 answers · asked by Rooster 3 in Marriage & Divorce

please help

2006-12-23 20:50:43 · 13 answers · asked by pcs856 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've seen some of teh personal ads for online Lesbian dating sites and some of these girls are super hot. It's such a pity (as a straight, horny male) that these women are unavailable (of course in the fantasy world that they would be available to me).
Please tell me what makes a female attractive to another female- and do you ever yearn for a male (or at least his sausage?)?
Is it a question of prefer female company, or males are too dissimilar- please enlighten me!

2006-12-23 20:50:23 · 2 answers · asked by Ministry of Camp Revivalism 4 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy, that I really like. But I have heard a lot about him, like I heard that he just hooks up with girls, get some action, and then dump them. He recently told me that he liked me. I got drunk with him one night, and we were cuddling, and I really don't remember if anything else happened. About a week later, he told my friend he likes her, and all he does is make fun of me now.
You think he was just using me? Or is he just an idiot?

2006-12-23 20:48:09 · 22 answers · asked by Adrianna 3 in Singles & Dating

You see the phrase "the wrong kind of attention" come up regarding women dressing in a provocative way. Accompanying this phrase is the 'observation' that women who dress in such a way are 'easy' or 'slutty', and that they somehow deserve any negative consequences they receive.

However, we are now in the 21st century, and supposedly in an enlightened age. Shouldn't we be promoting the idea, as enlightened human beings, that no matter how a woman dresses that the choices about what she agrees or refuses to do are ultimately hers? Or are we still stuck with stereotypes that just women by how they dress and not the measure of their true character?

2006-12-23 20:47:23 · 12 answers · asked by keltarr 3 in Singles & Dating

After a couple years of mostly good, things were going downhill & I wasn't giving them everything they needed emotionally. They let me know & I told them that I would try to change. I would for a week or two but then fall back into my old ways. They cheated on me with a co-worker (1 time sex but other connections for a month) & then didn't tell me for 3 months afterwards. we tried to move forward & improve our relationship so that they didnt feel the need to go to someone else for the attention but 1 year later, when things didn't change or improve, they have cheated on me again in the form of a 1 night stand & many late night conversations with this person that both of us were initially friends with. They tell me it was never about the other person but about the attention & way they made them feel & that it is what they want to get & feel from me. We want to be together & make things work with each other. But how can I ever trust them again and move past this?

2006-12-23 20:47:07 · 14 answers · asked by Sara L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

*If a guy knows that you like him dont they seem to take advantage of it? Cause to me when i seem to like a guy and he knows then he pretty much thinks that he has me and can keep me hanging but when i dont give him attention they start to come after me and try getting me? what the hell is that all about?

2006-12-23 20:45:48 · 6 answers · asked by jenny_b2007 2 in Friends

I haven't opened it yet, but I can guess what my boyfriend has got me for xmas... I know it cost over £100... thing is, I only spent £60 on him... We didn't agree a budget and I wasn't sure how much to spend... it's too late now for me to buy something else as I gave him the present the other day. Should I admit I didn't spend as much and buy him something else... or keep quiet and buy more next year? I feel guilty but I didn't want to go overboard incase he only spent £20 and felt awkward.... help!!!

2006-12-23 20:45:41 · 15 answers · asked by hmmm 1 in Singles & Dating

Women or gals :),I'd like to kno wut you all like the most in a guy.Maybe i can better myself into wut u gals like, thx so much for any info possible.

(. Y . )

2006-12-23 20:45:05 · 10 answers · asked by keysonyanos 2 in Singles & Dating

I LIKE TO ASK YOU THAT HOW CAN I BE A NICE HUSBAND.CAN ANY ONE GIVE ME SOME TIPS

2006-12-23 20:44:01 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If so, does it get harder to find the 'right' man and have a lasting relationship because the new one can never measure up to the best bits of those who went before?
(only 3 men in my life, all very different; I want to melt them together and create the perfect man)

2006-12-23 20:40:29 · 17 answers · asked by cate 4 in Singles & Dating