Many women just hook onto the guy for the financial security and wealth, while often ignoring the inner qualities of a guy who may not be earning enough for their requirements.
The surest way to be unpopular with women at a party is to say you are unemployed or you have an old beat up ute parked outside
It seems often marriage is a convenient arrangement where the women offers sex in exchange for a nice house and opulant lifestyle-sort of an unofficial prostitute.
Any guys found this to be true?
2006-12-23 21:12:22 · 13 answers · asked by ixlinxs 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if what you say is true, men only want a ditzy woman with big fake boobs to show off to their friends. Not all women are looking for a meal ticket but it is nice to be with a man who is established and isn't living with his mommy. I highly doubt you'd date a woman who had no job, lived at home and had no ambition. Considering the way you view women & marriage, I'd say you're broke and bitter and think all women are like the hoochies you've attempted to lure back to your mom's basement.
2006-12-23 21:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Well, I'm not that way. That is very shallow, you're certainly better off forgetting about any women like that. However, women do like to feel secure and that they will be ok, looked after, but NOT to the point of needing luxury.
That's just pathetic. And yes people are judgemental, I've seen how I get looked at if I say I am not working. i feel like I've just sat "by the way, I just **** my pants" because that' the type of expression I get.
2006-12-23 21:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by Gus 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Its absolutely true. My uncle died, and left my aunt alone. And she told my mom (her sister) that she wanted to start dating again. And the first thing my mom said was to date a man with money. Find someone in China who has money. And this is honest sister to sister talk. Stuff you dont hear unless you sneak into the girl's locker room.
2015-10-12 16:27:10 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's quite the generalization, isn't it? As if you can just lump all women together. I'm sure there are shallow women just as there are shallow men. And uh, there are women who make more than their husband, such as my sister. He's not offering her "sexual favors" in exchange for his keep, they have a partnership.
2006-12-23 21:23:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Pft, the kinds of women who are calculating and advantageous are just as numerous in types as men.
2006-12-23 21:18:50 · answer #5 · answered by Hotwad 980 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Women of child bearing years are biologically programmed to look for and be attracted to a man who can produce, protect and support children, a man who will be a good father.
Whether they know it or not women are not looking for a soulmate but a father for their children.
Older women tend to look for other things like intelligence and humour. (scientifically they care less about body shape and strength too because they are not looking for a man who can protect children)
Its just biology. Men look for women with curvy figures, big breasts and wide hips because biology tells them they have child bearing potential.
2006-12-23 21:21:36 · answer #6 · answered by cate 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Are men shallow and just looking for sex?
Men who can support themselves are just more attractive than men who can't. It has more to do with maturity and respect than ability to support the woman.
2006-12-23 21:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what a load of bollocks. I don't know where you live but it's not like that where I come from. That's such a croc of sh*t and if these are the types of women you know and meet, you should start socializing elsewhere.
2006-12-23 21:18:28 · answer #8 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Hey, I don't agree with that one bit. I'm totally down with the whole independent woman thing. And guys who think the way you do is the reason why!
2006-12-23 21:15:15 · answer #9 · answered by ms ambitious 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
yes to your bolded question, only if you're just a hook-up to her. other than that, women with brains don't just go for materialism.
2006-12-23 21:28:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋