2006-12-23 21:07:57 · 15 answers · asked by ceaser 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sex on the first date...well for me i have done it, and to be honest i felt ugly after, so i don't do it no more.. but if you choose to do it be sure you can handle it, if your not sure, then don't take the chance it depends on you, do you have high or low self esteem? at the time, mine was low.. and i attracted guys who had low esteem..not worth it! but if your easy, and don't give a rats butt.. then go for it, beware of AIDES, STD, DYING, OR EVEN PREGNANCY, YOU CAN STILL GET HIS ALL EVEN WITH A CONDOM! they are not 100% safe
Good Luck
Merry Christmas too
2006-12-23 21:31:07 · answer #1 · answered by debra_ehu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the date. Which answer do you want to hear? "Yes, but..." or "No, however..."
If you both want sex on the first date, and you both feel it's a logical conclusion to the date, then Yes - but don't let it be an expectation of the evening (or afternoon, or whenever).
If the first date was a bit of a mess, and one of you feels it didn't really go anywhere, then No - however, that's supposing that the success of the date was being used as a measure for the evening's progress...
Ultimately, what happens between consenting adults at the end of a date is noone else's business...
2006-12-24 05:29:02 · answer #2 · answered by keltarr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have sex on the first date, people assume they can take u for granted or that you are a slut (either male or female) - they won't take u seriously - so if you feel that you want a casual encounter - go for it .
In addition, if you don't know ur partner well u could contract an STD or HIV - are u willing to risk that?
if yes, then think about this:
If both of u r willing and don't expect anything more from each other than sex, and are ready for it to be a one night stand - then yes
Now, it's upto u to decide what u want and what u r willing to risk for that...
2006-12-24 05:23:02 · answer #3 · answered by honey007rmsas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Especially if you want to see them again. It's literally like shooting a new puppy. Cruel, heartless and totally unnecessary.
Sex after a longer courtship has longer-lasting effects, much more memorable and much more valuable.
If it's someone, R-worthy, hold off and take into you own hands, literally.
2006-12-24 05:35:32 · answer #4 · answered by L. F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont you believe you should get to know this person better if you think you might make a lifetime together????????? remember sex is not the most inporant thing in a realitionship
2006-12-24 05:24:40 · answer #5 · answered by gary b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yup... Gotta try it before you buy it.... Just thimk of it as a free sample....
2006-12-24 05:21:20 · answer #6 · answered by crimson_carnage 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It certainly is, especially if both want it.
2006-12-24 05:17:27 · answer #7 · answered by Arnoux 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its is the good and moral thing to do to be sexually fit andf give up the poon. that last chick is a ho.
2006-12-24 05:18:30 · answer #8 · answered by puta m 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yea...its called one night stand!
2006-12-24 06:30:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know then I would say it is not right.
You will know when it is.
2006-12-24 05:22:18 · answer #10 · answered by Ta Dah! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋