About 10 mounths ago i used to see this guy and we have been on and off ever sinc, i always see him with another women and i asked him if he was see in her to he said no were just friends. As the mounths passed i found out he WAS see in this women and i called it off, we got back together and left her and i left my fella. The other night he walked into the pub with " her " and totally ignored me and she was looking at me and laughing and wispering to her mate, i felt so small that in the end i punched him, i wanted to hurt him like he hurt me, it feels like he has shown me up on purpose in frount of evryone.He told me he loved me then he does that, i can't understand why he has done this to me as we have always been close friends even when i called it off with him! Should i just forget it?
2006-12-23 21:20:20 · 26 answers · asked by red devil 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
id just forget him. whats the point in trying to win back a complete loser
2006-12-23 21:24:05 · answer #1 · answered by jmsbaum 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget it? You better believe it! This guy is a real creep. You're not to blame for wanting to hurt him. Not only has he been lying to you all along but he has gone out of his way to humiliate and demean you just as you've perceived. All he's done is use and degrade you as a person and showed a brazen appalling lack of regard for you as a human being. Not only should you forget him but if he ever comes crawling back to you (which may happen) you have every right to step on him, like the worthless sub human slime that he is, and crush him down into the dirt where he belongs. This guy is a pitiful piece of work who is incapable of showing you, or anyone, any true feeling or the meaning of what love is.
2006-12-23 21:55:04 · answer #2 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe if you sat back and read your own question, you would find your own answer, the writings on the wall (or screen) for your relationship.
A good relationship needs to have trust, a relationship forged from an affair is never successful in the long term, since it was forged from infidelity.
If someone met you when they were already with someone else what makes you think that they would be faithful to you, if they had already betrayed someone by being with you?.
For good relationships thrive on loyalty, for everyone likes to feel that little bit special.
2006-12-24 01:44:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-28 06:57:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did this to you because you let him. This man is a pathetic excuse of a man, you should be glad that women is stuck with him.
I know its hard, I was going out with someone for 6 yrs and he ended it, and over the following 2 yrs we met up and always believed him when he said he loved me, i guess i just wanted to believe him so badly. I now realise that he used me, because i let him, i was too afraid to let myself see him for what he really was.
Please let this man go, let go of the hate and pain dont waste years taking him back and him making you feel bad. I wasted too much of my precious time on a man that was not worthy, i hope you dont do the same.
Hope everything works out for you
2006-12-23 22:13:50 · answer #5 · answered by Delete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you had no right to physically assault him... i'm surprised your not in jail. Chalk this up as a learned lesson. Let him go. Lick your wounds so to speak then hold your head high knowing she is with a lying dishonest slug... her loss not yours...you are already relieved of him fortunately. Its normal to feel hurt. and angry... but not violent. Let it go.. there are better fish in the sea than this bottom dweller.
2006-12-23 21:28:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just using you. You'll always be second best to him. How much proof do you need? Get out of it whilst you still can. He's not worth your brain space. Find better places to visit and better friends to be with. Have fun, be happy.xxx
2006-12-23 21:38:47 · answer #7 · answered by Phew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice men do exist and he doesn't sound like one of them. He sounds like an unstable serial womaniser who can't be trusted.
I think you should move on and find someone who respects you and says he loves you when he knows the true meaning of the word.
2006-12-23 21:29:01 · answer #8 · answered by : 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both parties were wrong. They taunted you and you fell for it by responding violently. If it happens again, show that you are not troubled by it at all... Don't let it get to you.
The truth is though, he is not the guy for you, so move on.
2006-12-23 21:25:49 · answer #9 · answered by Bart S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on there are some good fish in that big ocean,Try n have a Merry Christmas anyway.
2006-12-24 00:29:09 · answer #10 · answered by edison 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋