Ive found out that the girl that i like does not like me back. We were also work buddies, and shes leaving very soon, overseas, so i'll probably never see her again. Once she found out that i liked her, she acted very cold towards me. What can i do to stop liking her/thinking of her? How do i get over this "crush"?
2006-12-23 21:04:46 · 11 answers · asked by tao_gettos 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's going to be painful. The truth is that you probably won't "get over it." You're going to have to go through it instead.
One thing that may help is to think about the things you want in a woman to begin with. Namely, the kind of woman that shares your likes and interests.
Another thing is to remember that she was cold to you. When that happens it hurts.
I wish that this girl liked you back. But she doesn't.
Even if she said, we can still be friends, she probably doesn't mean it. 99 percent of the time, one-sided love means the end of any friendship. It is that painful.
The fact is that she rejected you, and it has hurt you. When it comes to love, you want something better than
disappointment.
I don't think that you have to "get over" any thing. She was cold to you, not the other way around.
Time doesn't really heal this kind of thing. Love does. I hope you find it.
2006-12-25 16:39:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may sound cold of me but when she does move away, maybe it will help you get over her. Could the reason that she is cold towards you because she knows that she is going, and doesn't want to get close to anyone as she then might not want to go away even though it is something she has always wanted?
2006-12-23 21:12:21 · answer #2 · answered by leigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there will be lots of people you will have feelings for that will not feel the same way. Stay respectable... give her space because she may be uncomfortable... if you treat her with respect and not be "gushing" over her then eventually things will even out.....Recognize you cant make someone like you..... your feelings are real to you but will not result in a relationship. thats ok. thats life. goodluck.
2006-12-23 21:10:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably not intentionally trying to act cold, but you just admitted to her you liked her. So she may act a little awkward now..that doesn't mean she's doing it on purpose.
2006-12-23 21:08:23 · answer #4 · answered by ms ambitious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should find something to distract yourself. Maybe something exciting that will take your mind off her, go to the movies, maybe with a friend. Just go do something fun.
2006-12-23 21:07:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude just ignore her coldness...try and be civil to her when you have to, don't hang out with her in your freetime and just focus on finding someone else.
2006-12-23 21:06:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Time.
Try to think of something that you did not like about her and focus on that instead of glorifying her good points?
2006-12-23 21:07:07 · answer #7 · answered by cate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only thing that i can tell you is that time heals all wounds. You will eventually move on
2006-12-23 21:07:16 · answer #8 · answered by glacier 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds.
2006-12-23 21:06:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
walk up to her and slap her real hard.
that wud cure u soonest, buddy
2006-12-23 21:06:40 · answer #10 · answered by D *)sukky 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋