Family & Relationships - 26 December 2006

i tell her they dont but idk shes not convince help me help her please

2006-12-26 06:36:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am in the beginning of a divorce and preparing for nursing school..RN...It is 2 years after the core classes, I am not worried about my core classes b/c I can schedule them as needed..But nursing school is different they give you the schedule and you either sink or swim..I have to get through this b/c if not I will always struggle financially with my son. That is not the life I want for neither one of us.. His father works offshore and is gone 28 days at a time so its not like I can rely on him..I just need some help with the motivation part I guess..I know what is right and what I have to do its so scary though..B/c its hard enough for single people with out a family to take care of and here I am with all these responsabilities, which I don't regret by the way it is just I don't want to realize that maybe I am not capable of doing this!

2006-12-26 06:36:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Sometimes i think i wont to get married so i still look young and youthfull in my wedding pics and everyone says i look beautifull as i glide down th eisle with my pert D cups and tight *** as im now 26. But finding the right man is impotant too, yet what if im waiting till im like 40 and i look haggerd!!! What do u think is the best age and whats most important?

2006-12-26 06:35:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it because asian girls make them feel powerful, and are less threatening to their ego?
How do I know that the guy love me for real? Not just they can't find white sexy girl in their countries?

2006-12-26 06:35:28 · 11 answers · asked by ★menta★ 4 in Singles & Dating

SHE MOVED TO PONCA CITY OK, FROM BILLINGS, MONTANA IN THE 9TH GRADE, THEN MOVED TO LAKE CHARLES LOUSIANA IN THE 11TH GRADE, HER DAD DIED AROUND THEN, HE WAS WORKING AND TRANSFERED WITH CONOCO, RIP! SHE ALWAYS WANTED TO GO TO FLORIDA UNIVERSITY, RATHER SHE DID OR NOT IDK. PLZ HELP, I HAVEN'T HEARD FROM HERE IN AWHILE AND WONDERING IF HER AND HER PARENTS ARE OK, ALSO, SHE HAD AN OLDER SISTER, THE SISTER IS PROLLY AROUND 33 OR 34 Y/O, MICHELLE IS AROUND 27 OR 28, MAYBE 29 AND GRADUATED AROUND 95, OR 96.

2006-12-26 06:35:20 · 1 answers · asked by Fantasy Sports Guru 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-26 06:35:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have a great job, great family, great friends and a fiance that lives 2000 miles from me. He wants me to move there to be with him and I am completely torn up over it because of everything I listed in the first paragraph. I really do love him and he loves me. He offered to come here and I mistakenly told him not to because I thought it would be too hard for him here to find work and because he's from the city and I didn't think he would like it.

Now I have to make the decision to move and I am so close to my parents who have no one else to help them if I leave. My fiance says I can come back anytime I want to visit but I don't know how we will afford that. I'm getting old, too! I'm 35 and I want children.

Is there anyone out there that has faced this problem? I know so many people that left the area and then came back to take care of an ailing parent. How can I leave now?

People keep telling me I have to live my life - but I feel a huge gap in my life when....

2006-12-26 06:34:46 · 6 answers · asked by SelfGrill 3 in Family

A couple of days ago I told my crush of 2 years that i had feelings for him. He said that he does has feelings for me but that he doesnt know if he wants to date me because he has feelings for someone else too. (Also he has never been in a relationship before.) I was hurt and was starting to get over it until yesterday...he wants to know if i will take him back and that he wants to try and have a relationship with me because he really does like me...he realizes that it was foolish to wait around for the other person. I still have feelings for him..but should I take him back???

2006-12-26 06:34:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been broken up for about a month and every time I say I'm moving on he pops back into my life. He invited me and my son to xmas with his family and it was amazing, we had the best time and it seemed like he wanted to get back together. I'm miserable without him but he says his heart isn't where it used to be. He says he happy now but we had sex 2 weeks ago. I have no idea what to think of all this. I am getting so many mixed feelings here. He knows I want to be with him and why would he toy with my emotions. I am a fool for thinking he wants to be with me, or should I just move on? He won't even give our relationship a second chance and I refuse to be his booty call. My son is so attached to him and it's going to break my heart to say he can't see him anymore. I just want to know what I should do....How do I get him back...how do I get him to love me again without playing any games?

2006-12-26 06:34:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 06:34:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what do u think happens wen u die? ive been thinkn about this since my gran died

2006-12-26 06:33:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been in a relationship for over 7 years and I do care a lot about him. The thing is that I met this guy that I would like to write to as friends, but my boyfriend doesn't understand this. He is insecure about the whole thing. This other guy is JUST a friend, a pen-pal to write to while he's in prison. It helps him pass the time for a few minutes anyways. My brothers have been in prison and they've told me how much they would enjoy getting mail. This is part of the reason I would like this pen-pal. Mostly, he's just fun to write to.

2006-12-26 06:33:48 · 9 answers · asked by confused 1 in Friends

Making out is getting boring, how can I hint without SAYING IT that I would like to move a little further. How can I get him to feel me up?

2006-12-26 06:33:45 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 06:33:02 · 11 answers · asked by funkifiedfreak 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 26-year-old Asian girl. I like a man who is teaching English and from north England. I just gave him a small thing for xmas but I don't know what should I do then. I wish he could like me too and I am not sure if he will like me or not (I'm pretty and stylish.) Or maybe I have to waiting for his response. somebody tell me how to do??

2006-12-26 06:32:59 · 3 answers · asked by elle 1 in Singles & Dating

what do you do?? male or female!!

2006-12-26 06:32:17 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

ok here is the story lately my friend(who is a girl) has been acting very @$$holish first off she isnt acting the least bit interested in what i say(this has been going on for the past two or three weeks so i know its not her monthly visitor) and then yesterday i called her and she wouldnt talk to me then someone called and i said "let me call you back" and she said "ok" well one minute later i called her back and she didnt answer then i called her again around 8 her mom picked up and said she would have her call back i called again at 10 no one answered i got on messenger and she was invisible to me i know this because i talked to my other friend on there and she said well cant you see that she is online so yes she was invisible to me i tried talking to her asking her why she didnt answer and she got mad and said "hey i am not your girlfriend and i have my own life maybe i didnt feel like talikng you @$$hole" i am thinking about stoping talking to her but she is my best friend

2006-12-26 06:32:15 · 3 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Friends

This girl I really fancy keeps sending me text messages. Im not sure if she fancies me or not! We work together. We were out on or Christmas night out the other night. We got on well together but I didnt make a move. We talk alot together at work and we have spent time alone were she has said she has enjoyed talking with me. The day after the Christmas night out she txt me to see if I enjoyed myself and was making jokes about the night. I txt back. She txt me again and I thought sod this I gotta drop a hint that I like her. So I txt her saying how well she looked on the night out. She txt straight back thanking me for the compliment. Then on Xmas day she txt me wishing me happy xmas.

I believe she has a boyfriend but that a break up is on the cards if not already happened. I know I should just ask her out but I'm afraid to rush in too soon and spoil things. Especially cos of the work and boyfriend situation. Should I wait and keep doing what I'm doing or what?

2006-12-26 06:32:07 · 7 answers · asked by K 2 in Singles & Dating

i heard that if u marry ur cousin its not good because u end up with abnormal children....but i know many ppl who have married there cousins like my aunts and uncles but they have perfectly normal children....if u marry ur cousin is it possible to get medical help and not get abnormal children........??? if i marry my cousin who is my dad's oldest sisters youngest son is that ok????

2006-12-26 06:31:55 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It's such a blessing to be with a sweetheart like my girl, but the amount of tolerance she has for her guy friend's interference in our living space, our relationship and comfort zone is ridiculous. I'm usually at work when he's around her alone at times alot. She's been there so much for me, but still seems to somehow give this guy unfair bias over me or seemingly more patience of his blocking to our love than fair. She is constantly reminding me how her and I are one, but then not REALLY putting her foot down so that we could move on without him. I'm might stay somewhere else until he's gone or who knows what else. It's so wack to me because I know that if it was me with a homegirl/roomate that flirts and is such an obstacle to our relationship, my girlfriend wouldn't deal with half the b.s. I dealt with. We both know we've never loved no one else like we have each other before, but it seems that she lacks the firmness in dealing with this dude. Is there more to this than I know?

2006-12-26 06:31:35 · 4 answers · asked by Justcool 2 in Singles & Dating

he did not send me a christmas card. Is this a bad sign?

2006-12-26 06:30:57 · 11 answers · asked by ronnie 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 06:30:26 · 17 answers · asked by raj 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Which type of costume would you like to see her in, a nurse, school girl or maid?

2006-12-26 06:30:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

feel awkward in telling others how you met them?
Ummm...wasn't it considered romantic when women were writing letters to men who were at war then meeting them when they got back(if they made it of course)? Same idea, different medium, right?

2006-12-26 06:30:13 · 8 answers · asked by viewAskew 5 in Singles & Dating

Thers this guy at school that is just so perfect.And heres y i like him so much.Hes funny,caring,athletic,cute,stays out of trouble,pretty smart but not retarded,and allways treets a girl right.I meen he allways tries to make me laugh and talks to me and stuff.But i am not sure if i should ask him to out with me or not.Please help me with this one!

2006-12-26 06:29:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we've been together for 3 months he is my first serious boyfriend im 18 and he is 24 and he is good financially and im not too bad myself im a loan processor for a mortgage company and he lives in his own place i would just like to move in with him but im scared of telling him and him not been ready. what should i do tell him or wait a litle longer? thanks

2006-12-26 06:28:25 · 22 answers · asked by Blondie 2 in Singles & Dating

I probably can use common sense, but I wanted a womans opinion. This woman I know she was talking to me like 100 words per minute for like 20 minutes. I wanted to know, was sher nervous about me or did she like me or what?

2006-12-26 06:27:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months. We moved with our relationship too fast, Lesson learned...And now Im wondering if we should even be together..At least not living together..But I dont know what to say or do...He moved in with me, and recently his mom lost her place and is staying with us too...She is no problems at all - she great...But my boyfriend has a few things that I am just being so close to fed up with. And Ive told him this..And say I dont want that to be a part of my future....So he kinda has an idea that he needs to change some ways or he will loose me...

2006-12-26 06:27:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

History is as follows:We met when i was 22 and just got a job ,he was indierectly my boss ,and was 13 yrs older than me.I had a child from a previous relationship who was 5 yrs old but some how we got married a year later , were married for 7.5 yrs, and had twins together.The reason for the divorce was the age difference and the fact that i felt i was too young to be married.I dated around after that and eventually ran into my eldest daughter biological father married him it lasted 3 yrs, and had my youngest child.After that failed marriage i started dating men in their mid to late 20's which was fun for a while but i got over it.The only man other than my father too see me through all of this and still be my best friend was my first hubby.We have started dating again and he proposed christmas day and i said yes.How can i overcome my fear of getting married?

2006-12-26 06:26:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i dated this guy for two years he broke up w/ me in august and he already had a girlfriend within weeks...ive heard lots about her and how she's sooo perfect for him...and he's now hanging out with her and the group of friends we both hang out with...and i feel sooo nervous and maybe even a little intimidated by her...i mean sure he acted like a jerk and a jackass bt honestly im happy for him that he's happy... is it normal to feel that way about the girl????

2006-12-26 06:26:03 · 18 answers · asked by theoneandonly 1 in Singles & Dating