Family & Relationships - 26 December 2006

What do you think about second wife? Many people usually think that minor wife is bad. She is making the relationship between husband and major wife are worse. If woman can choose, they don’t want to be a minor wife. But if it is necessary, then a minor wife can be happy. She doesn’t worry about it because each person has his or her own life. He or she has to be responsible his or her duty. In my opinion sometimes this life makes you are happy.
First, a free life makes you have free time to think something, arrange your life and do everything. If you want to go somewhere with somebody, you can do it. You don’t mind his family because you don’t have relation with his family. When he miss you and want to meet you and spend the time with you, he will to come to visit at your home so you don’t wait for him. And he doesn’t go your home everyday thus you don’t wait up him, when he arrive at home.
Second, this life doesn’t have responsibility in law. So you don’t mind when your husband has to commit a crime. It isn’t become entangled with you because you haven’t gotten married and registered in the office. Therefore it’s hasn’t retroactive effect for you.
Third, you can spend time for a merit, miscellaneous things, accumulate, clothes etc. When you want to spend your money about them, you can use it because you don’t have heavy burden. You don’t need to live in your home the whole day so you have a time for beauty salon. You usually live in your home alone. So you can do everything if you want to do it.
Finally, I think you shouldn’t think about her is bad way because it depend on male more than female, he is chooser. I think she can’t break off relationship between her and him, but some woman can when she feels that she makes some problems for them, if she can choose she will not choose this life.
In conclusion, this life isn’t bad for someone, she can’t choose it. But she can be happy. If you are her, what would you feel and Are you doing samething with her, or not! I think you ought to choose it, it’s better for your life.
If you have two choices, one you are single and two you are minor wife. What are you choose it?

2006-12-26 00:04:23 · 17 answers · asked by bellmax16 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and i have only been married a year and he doesnt show me any affection any more he never kisses me any more and sex is non exsistant. Ive talked to him about it and he says its my falt because im asleep when he comes to bed, but what does he expect he only comes to bed at 3am.Do you think he could be cheating on me, even thought he says he loves me or,Ive been really depressed lately could it just be that.

2006-12-26 00:04:22 · 48 answers · asked by nicola r 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am going out with this boy and my use to be friend is pure presuring me to go out with this geek who is a spaz no efense and she wont stop leaving me alone on messenger she always sends me messages like "you to are the perfect couple" bla blabla when im already going out with a guy and there's a counsalar at the school should i tel her? Or my parents? or what?..

2006-12-26 00:03:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i do not love him but sex is the best i've had..............so he is like all the time do u love me i do not know what to do .............well i mean i know what i want still i do not want him get hurt.........

2006-12-26 00:03:08 · 18 answers · asked by tiptop 1 in Singles & Dating

Neither of us are available for dating right now due to work and commitments to other people, but we have decided to both try and sort our respective stuff out and then get together, so that we get together at the right time and with no guilt involved. i want to tease him and keep him interested and tittillated until then. Suggestions? We work together and see each other about once a day. I can email him but i don't want to be the one making those obvious moves.

2006-12-26 00:02:56 · 8 answers · asked by AussieRockchic 1 in Singles & Dating

I think people need to come up with alternatives and develop their own tradition with their kids.

2006-12-26 00:02:40 · 13 answers · asked by ME 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-26 00:02:05 · 15 answers · asked by aakash t 1 in Singles & Dating

how true is that?

2006-12-26 00:00:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating