I am going out with this boy and my use to be friend is pure presuring me to go out with this geek who is a spaz no efense and she wont stop leaving me alone on messenger she always sends me messages like "you to are the perfect couple" bla blabla when im already going out with a guy and there's a counsalar at the school should i tel her? Or my parents? or what?..
2006-12-26 00:03:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is your age in the double digits?
2006-12-26 00:05:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If your current boyfriend treats you well and you get along, then you need to tell your friend once and for all that you're not interested in the boy she is trying to hook you up with and block her from messaging you. If your current boyfriend leaves you with questions about your relationship, maybe you should meet the guy she is telling you about. Sometimes "geeks' and "spazzes" are anything but once you get to know their true personality.
2006-12-26 08:08:28 · answer #2 · answered by A C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the girl to back off. If she won't, it is harassment, head to the counselor and see what they'll do to mediate the situation. If comes to it, you can change your messenger name, and email, at least for awhile, until she leaves you alone.
2006-12-26 08:05:58 · answer #3 · answered by SunShineShoes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she wants or has a crush on the guy your with. tell her to stop pressuring you to go out with someone that clearly are not attracted to or dont like. if she is a real friend she will stop. be careful of those wolfes in sheeps clothing.
2006-12-26 08:06:04 · answer #4 · answered by american hispanic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your "friend " you have a mind of your own --- and when you want her opinion you will ask her for it --- in particular --- as to who you go out with . don't cave into her pressure ( unless she wants him !!)
but i still think it is a good idea to talk about it with the counsellor ; mum and dad etc .
all the advice you can get is for your benefit --- it costs nothing to ask ! good luck .
2006-12-26 08:16:03 · answer #5 · answered by bill g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you talked to the geek and he told you he was madly in love with her therefore she can have him as you wouldn't dare think to come between her and her true love.
2006-12-26 08:13:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG that girl has no right to do that, its your life, and its up too you who you go out with.
Block her on messenger.
If she questions you, blank her, or tell her straight out to leave you alone.
If she keeps at it, go to someone you can trust, a older sister or your parents, and tell them whats happening.
i know people dont really go to their parents, but they do end up understanding, more then you think.
Good Luck
-T- Ezz
2006-12-26 08:12:47 · answer #7 · answered by babiirage 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just punching your buttons...ignore her and walk away....it may take a little while but it always works...you won't be easy prey anymore and those kind of people don't like work
2006-12-26 08:06:24 · answer #8 · answered by jdoug_sellers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to take a flying f@%^ off the next cliff or go date the guy herself
2006-12-26 08:06:15 · answer #9 · answered by free2chat_tou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's just 1 explanation to this: she likes the guy you're with
2006-12-26 08:43:16 · answer #10 · answered by Iamtheone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋