Family & Relationships - 26 December 2006

Also is there only one special someone or can there be more than one?

2006-12-26 01:46:51 · 14 answers · asked by wldctpete 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 01:46:26 · 7 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl I really fancy keeps sending me text messages. Im not sure if she fancies me or not! We work together. We were out on or Christmas night out the other night. We got on well together but I didnt make a move. We talk alot together at work and we have spent time alone were she has said she has enjoyed talking with me. The day after the Christmas night out she txt me to see if I enjoyed myself and was making jokes about the night. I txt back. She txt me again and I thought sod this I gotta drop a hint that I like her. So I txt her saying how well she looked on the night out. She txt straight back thanking me for the compliment. Then on Xmas day she txt me wishing me happy xmas.

I believe she has a boyfriend but that a break up is on the cards if not already happened. I know I should just ask her out but I'm afraid to rush in too soon and spoil things. Especially cos of the work and boyfriend situation. Should I wait and keep doing what I'm doing or what?

2006-12-26 01:45:38 · 9 answers · asked by K 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 01:44:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 01:43:07 · 18 answers · asked by JoAnne K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-26 01:43:04 · 10 answers · asked by Aaps 1 in Friends

She and I used to be getting along very well when i had a crush with her buddy & she was suffering a breakup.I have a few clean dates with her buddy and decide to give up and move on.

Then She and I alway text each other almost daily and reply was always quick. We tell each other anything(problem,etc). I alway give a morning call everyday. (Past 2 occasion I ask her to wake me up in the afternoon) The text get less and slow for past 2 months. And now it is I who keep initiate the text. ( Last time it was 50% her). Once i hint Ito her she seem to take it as a joke. I actually move deeper sending love msg. No REPLY.

On xmas, she received my gift. She did not react or inform me anything until i told her a parcel will be sent to her soon.Then she told me she recvd and thank me in text. When i ask she whether she like it, NO REPLY. 1 week ago i ask her to wake me up. She DID NOT. We still keep it friendly contact.

2006-12-26 01:42:37 · 7 answers · asked by Fred 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf of of 6 yrs have been engaged for 2 yrs.he has a huge debt (25k)from his first marrage that he is trying to pay off.we have been trying to save up to get married for the last 2 yrs.i don't want to sound like a evil stepmom but we just spent over 300 hundred on his son for x-mas.his son wanted a motorcycle for x-mas along with many other things but did not get it.we told him we would get him one next x-mas.now my bf's exwife has convinced him to go in half on a motorcycle with her which would be about 200 dollars.200 dollars right after x-mas is alot for us.my bf said he will take it from his bonus check he got but i feel he should put that money towards his debt or our wedding.my bf was big in motorcycle racing as a kid and he really wants to get his son into it too.am i wrong to feel this way?

2006-12-26 01:42:34 · 5 answers · asked by karenmackhjui89 1 in Friends

yesterday i asked her out. online.. but she told me that i will recieve the answer today. What If she Say No today ?? What should I Do ?? =[

2006-12-26 01:42:29 · 5 answers · asked by john w 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 13, good student, never got in any serious trouble. About 2 months ago I got to know some other kids. They keep inviting me to do bad stuff, like drinking and even worse things. It seems some of my real friends are giving in to those guys and keep also keep telling me to do that stuff. Frankly, I almost gave in to peer pressure and got scared. So, I talked to my parents, I used to trust them, and told them everything, even that a few times I was weak and was about to give in to peer pressure. They got kinda worried, congratulated me on my honesty, but told me to leave those guys and now are controlling me much more than before. I complained, told them I just asked for help, trusted them and got grounded, punished. They said No way, this is no punishment at all, you're a great kid, said they are happy I trusted them and just want to protect me. Dd said they just want to make me stronger and wiser. But actually, I feel punished. It's like asking a friend's help and gettiing slapped

2006-12-26 01:41:44 · 14 answers · asked by Edson 1 in Family

my bf of of 6 yrs have been engaged for 2 yrs.he has a huge debt (25k)from his first marrage that he is trying to pay off.we have been trying to save up to get married for the last 2 yrs.i don't want to sound like a evil stepmom but we just spent over 300 hundred on his son for x-mas.his son wanted a motorcycle for x-mas along with many other things but did not get it.we told him we would get him one next x-mas.now my bf's exwife has convinced him to go in half on a motorcycle with her which would be about 200 dollars.200 dollars right after x-mas is alot for us.my bf said he will take it from his bonus check he got but i feel he should put that money towards his debt or our wedding.my bf was big in motorcycle racing as a kid and he really wants to get his son into it too.am i wrong to feel this way?

2006-12-26 01:41:44 · 15 answers · asked by karenmackhjui89 1 in Family

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months and we went to his mom's place for christmas dinner. She got me sterling silver earrings and a necklace with heart designs in them-very pretty! What should I write in a thankyou note to her, without sounding cheesy? I am also planning to put a picture of my boyfriend and I from Christmas in the card when I send it. Also, how do I end the note? Sincerly, Love,From, Best Regards??

2006-12-26 01:41:29 · 7 answers · asked by cutie pie 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-26 01:40:28 · 5 answers · asked by super_454_star_288 1 in Singles & Dating

I had this guy involved with me for a year or so...we're into a long distance relationship...but really, no matter what angle you look at, WE know it's wrong...but then again...even if i know it's wrong...why doe's it hurt to end things up with him? He couldn't even give me his presence and his time....

2006-12-26 01:40:28 · 2 answers · asked by Kristine U 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf of of 6 yrs have been engaged for 2 yrs.he has a huge debt (25k)from his first marrage that he is trying to pay off.we have been trying to save up to get married for the last 2 yrs.i don't want to sound like a evil stepmom but we just spent over 300 hundred on his son for x-mas.his son wanted a motorcycle for x-mas along with many other things but did not get it.we told him we would get him one next x-mas.now my bf's exwife has convinced him to go in half on a motorcycle with her which would be about 200 dollars.200 dollars right after x-mas is alot for us.my bf said he will take it from his bonus check he got but i feel he should put that money towards his debt or our wedding.my bf was big in motorcycle racing as a kid and he really wants to get his son into it too.am i wrong to feel this way?

2006-12-26 01:39:46 · 14 answers · asked by karenmackhjui89 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it normal for someone who has an affair and leaves their spouse to re-write history? My ex keeps telling people he was not happy in our ten year marriage so that is why he had an affair with a co-worker and moved in with her almost immediately. However, it seems as if this "unhappiness" started when his affair did! He has even gone as far as to say that I changed when I lost our baby - 9.5 years ago! I guess he was only happy for 6 months. How do you deal with this? It is so frustrating to listen to this guy re-interpret our entire lives together simply to make his actions less despicable. Is it normal for cheaters to do this? I know we were having problems - ones I thought we could work out with counselling but he refused to go. Why does he have to do this?

2006-12-26 01:39:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

there is a girl a grade older then me and she says to people that she is better looking then me and she bareley even knows me and she is critizing me

2006-12-26 01:38:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband and i are seperated but still spend almost everyday together. Last night he asks me if it feels strange when we hang out together becuase he feels it comes a second nature to cuddle me and hold my hand, he says he won't because he doesn't want to complicate things any more and everything should come naturally... ok so what the heck does that mean?

2006-12-26 01:38:54 · 13 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and her share the same office and we get along great
so we are tight
she is leaving our company and i dont know what to get her as a going away gift?

Any Suggestions?

2006-12-26 01:38:22 · 3 answers · asked by alooz 2 in Friends

Back in Oct. i was due to have mine and my husbans first child, he was working out of town while i was back at our home place with family getting ready to have our child, i got our cell phone bill and got the number of the girl he was talkng to and called her, she told me he stayed all night with her and rented movies and took her out to eat, well i just now found a copy of the visa statement and it had blockbuster, and the outback. so now i know hes been lying to me, its now december and we have a 2 month old baby and my husband still tells me he did not go to her house and didnt do any thing with the girl, while the girl told me that he stayed all night and slept in the same bed and had oral sex. Im going to show him today that i found the visa statement, to see if he still lies to me, should i tell him to either tell me the truth or me and our baby is leaving and going back to our home town? cause i want to know the truth any advice?

2006-12-26 01:38:11 · 31 answers · asked by KMA K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am not saying STAY angry but I have right to an angry period since my husband moved in down the street with the local sluuut who is not even a kind person ( nd kids behind as well.) Statements like "get over it" and "don't be so angry" are so insipid. Of course I will but don't expect that soon. And yes, it has been hard. Maybe people those people who haven' experienced this, or the people who did the leaving, can be so cavalier. My office mate was moody for months after her divorce whenever her husband had the daughter for the week. OF COURSE SHE WAS. I told people to give her a break. She now has gotten beyond that and looks forward to her weeks to do as she wants. Please people. No platitudes. Can anyone relate to this?

2006-12-26 01:36:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-26 01:36:18 · 6 answers · asked by Isu 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 01:35:56 · 8 answers · asked by super_454_star_288 1 in Friends

Actually I want to know what guys really like to hear from their gfs.. :) Something that would make you feel special in a way..

2006-12-26 01:35:31 · 11 answers · asked by hotlipz 2 in Singles & Dating

can girls just keep going and going orgasm on top of orgasm until the guy gives up! lol??

2006-12-26 01:35:04 · 8 answers · asked by Tazzzy 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and this girl are planning on getting married after college. We would be marrying sooner, but it seems best to wait. I haven't ever called her my girlfriend (We didn't date, we courted Neither of us have ever dated anyone else. Basic difference is that we weren't looking for a romantical relationship. We were just good friends for the longest time. Then, after we realized there was mutual interest, we started talking about where the relationship would go)

I haven't formally proposed and don't have a ring for her. We aren't even picking a date or talking about plans because it's still another 4-5 years away.

To call her my girlfriend underemphizises the commitment we have made. But it doesn't seem right to call her my fiance or say that we are engaged.

It is really awkward introducing her to friends and family without something to call her. Is there something that gives the best of both worlds?

2006-12-26 01:35:01 · 9 answers · asked by peliglad 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I normally go to a saloon that has 2 or 3 working there. I always ask for the same girl since she does a good job and I get my hair shampooed. However, everytime i go she takes longer shampooing my hair, she massages my scalp longer, and lately she run her fingers thru my hair in a way that really is turning me on.

2006-12-26 01:34:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He has a generation name meaning he is the 3rd. so i have reason to believe that he is using either his grandfather's identity/his dad's. i also have reason to beleive that he may even have a fake id/ssn to avoid paying me child support.

2006-12-26 01:31:08 · 11 answers · asked by i'm bossy 1 in Family

Whast would you do if the guy you loved lived far away and the only way you could talk to him is through letters and phone calls? You cant move on either. Thanks in advance for your help. I appreciate it.

2006-12-26 01:30:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he told me it take alot for him to want to hit a women

2006-12-26 01:29:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating