This girl I really fancy keeps sending me text messages. Im not sure if she fancies me or not! We work together. We were out on or Christmas night out the other night. We got on well together but I didnt make a move. We talk alot together at work and we have spent time alone were she has said she has enjoyed talking with me. The day after the Christmas night out she txt me to see if I enjoyed myself and was making jokes about the night. I txt back. She txt me again and I thought sod this I gotta drop a hint that I like her. So I txt her saying how well she looked on the night out. She txt straight back thanking me for the compliment. Then on Xmas day she txt me wishing me happy xmas.
I believe she has a boyfriend but that a break up is on the cards if not already happened. I know I should just ask her out but I'm afraid to rush in too soon and spoil things. Especially cos of the work and boyfriend situation. Should I wait and keep doing what I'm doing or what?
2006-12-26 01:45:38 · 9 answers · asked by K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only she knows for sure. You gonna have to risk rejection and talk to the lady. Good luck, I hope things work out for you.
2006-12-26 02:02:46 · answer #1 · answered by BLADE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like we say in Texas, "Steer it, clear it. It's the law." Dude, a breakup may really be in the cards. She could really have intentions on breaking up with him. They very well may. Wisdom says don't get involved with someone fresh out of a relationship.
First off, the lady is currently in a relationship. DOn't go out with her anymore. I'm sure that she's probabl pretty but, there is something you do that her man isn't doing right now. And she is blinded by that. She can't even take the time to appreciate your full value. i mean she has one situation that she is obviously not happy with. Don't create another one. Partial gratification is just that. It is only partial. I don't know about you but if i am going to share my heart, in any way, i am goig to do it with someone that can appreciate all of it.
Also, if it's meant it will happen in time. But do it the right way.
2006-12-26 02:04:04 · answer #2 · answered by beautyzhername 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep going as you are going, until you are certain that the boyfriend is no longer in the picture. It isn't the done thing to muscle in on another mans lady, and you wouldn't want to be a factor in the break up. Let her decide if she wants to leave him before you complicate things. Then you will know that she is with you for the right reasons once you do make a move :)
2006-12-26 01:48:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait!!! Dont rush into things, until "after" your "sure" that she has broken up with her boyfriend... (Remember, she may actually just like you and need you as a friend, and that may be all there is too it, but, until the boyfriend is out of the picture, you have no "right" to make any kind of "move" on her).
When she is "ready" she will let 'you' know...
I wish you well.
Jesse
2006-12-26 01:51:05 · answer #4 · answered by x 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she does enjoy flirting with you. Enjoy just that for now. She needs to be the one to sort out her relationship with her boyfriend first. If she is doing this (without a break), for a few weeks, then casually text her that you are going.....whereever, and would she like to come? (You don't want to be believing too much if she is just trying to make the boyfriend jealous>)
2006-12-26 01:51:02 · answer #5 · answered by irate wench 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i would wait and do what your doing now. you dont want to be the rebound guy or stuff it up by going in to fast or to soon good luck
2006-12-26 01:57:21 · answer #6 · answered by nat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would wait and make sure your not the rebound guy either
2006-12-26 01:48:44 · answer #7 · answered by Angel Virgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she likes you alot. Get busy, go ask her out! Be brave and just do it.
2006-12-26 01:50:09 · answer #8 · answered by gemini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes you don't think the boyfriend will
2006-12-26 02:43:16 · answer #9 · answered by debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋