She and I used to be getting along very well when i had a crush with her buddy & she was suffering a breakup.I have a few clean dates with her buddy and decide to give up and move on.
Then She and I alway text each other almost daily and reply was always quick. We tell each other anything(problem,etc). I alway give a morning call everyday. (Past 2 occasion I ask her to wake me up in the afternoon) The text get less and slow for past 2 months. And now it is I who keep initiate the text. ( Last time it was 50% her). Once i hint Ito her she seem to take it as a joke. I actually move deeper sending love msg. No REPLY.
On xmas, she received my gift. She did not react or inform me anything until i told her a parcel will be sent to her soon.Then she told me she recvd and thank me in text. When i ask she whether she like it, NO REPLY. 1 week ago i ask her to wake me up. She DID NOT. We still keep it friendly contact.
2006-12-26 01:42:37 · 7 answers · asked by Fred 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When i think she probably want me distant her. I ask her whether she need a wake up call from the next day. She say YES!!! Make me puzzled. As a friend, when i receive a gift when you i will thank you immediately. I mean is she not ready, playing hard to get, or no confidence. ( She got a serious body scar which she told me long time back)
2006-12-26 01:45:59 · update #1
She isn't playing a mind game or is unconfident. She just isn't interested in you the way you are with her and she doesn't want to come out and tell you.
2006-12-26 01:46:49 · answer #1 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about this, but actions speak louder than words. I would just keep it real with her and ask her what's up. Don't do this in a text, just call her and when she finally picks up, be courageous, tell her how you feel and see what gives. Hopefully she will be honest with you about how she feels and not continue to string the friendship along.
2006-12-26 01:47:06 · answer #2 · answered by Light 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all sounds extremely shallow and that you need to build a life before dating any more. Most girls are going to have contempt for you in your present text messaging condition, from what I can tell. They would probably have more respect and admiration for an earthworm.
Jason is correct below, as well.
2006-12-26 01:45:37 · answer #3 · answered by Joe C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems she wants and likes you as a friend and speaks to you in an appropriate manner,,,daily isnt a must for friendship to develop and as she has grown accustomed to you being a friend you seem to have stepped up contact and now expect her to do the same,,text by all means but you have to acknowledge if you continue to want her friendship you must act like a friend,,not a mad stalker,,,,,for instance,,friends tell each other when they have met someone new,,would your reaction be ,,"you are cheating on me and leading me on? or would it be,,,whats he like,,when are you going out with him?" if you cant accept her as just someone you can trust as a friend,,talk to as a friend and be honest with,,AS A FRIEND,,it may be better for you to let her go as it doesnt seem she is interested in you in that way.
2006-12-26 01:50:24 · answer #4 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry...but this is neither a mind game nor a lack of self confidence. A lot of times, actions speak louder than words and this is one of them. Accept it and move on. It's her loss.
2006-12-26 01:47:49 · answer #5 · answered by Edisto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend, I'm afraid it is neither a mind game nor is she lacking in confidence. Rather, it appears her interest in you has diminished. I think you will do best to try to move on.
2006-12-26 01:45:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's distancing herself from you for some reason. Leave her alone for awhile see what happens.
2006-12-26 01:48:54 · answer #7 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋