My fiance is great. She loves me and my two boys. She always wants to put them first. With that said, here is my situation: She lives outside of the US and is spending the holidays with her family since we will be married and she will be moving here in February. I want to be with her for the new year, but everyone in my family says "put the kids first" "stay home with them" "she will understand" and so on. She honestly says the same, but I wonder in the back of her mind if it bothers her. I know we will be together soon, but how do you balance a relationship when you have kids. It is really tough to be apart like this over the holidays, but I do want to be with my boys as well and enjoy the last few weeks that we will have for just the three of us. Sometimes, I really wish there were two of me!!! I had thought of bringing them there, but they just want to spend some time at home with their friends and so on.....
2006-12-26
02:59:06
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hunter65
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Marriage & Divorce