What is the best way to pick yourself up from a bad relationship?

Question

how to make urself feel ebtter, and basically move on!?

Answer 1

If it was a bad relationship... then the end should be a positive event. As for getting over it, there's no rule book to the best way but here's my advice.

1. accept that you'll feel a bit crap for a bit and warn your mates that you're likely to be a bit cranky every now and then cause of the break up.

2. get amongst it and keep throwing yourself into situations where you'll be meeting new people and new experiences. It might feel weird at first but it will be worth it.

3. drop all contact with the ex. don't try and be friends, its highly likely to fall on it's a*se as there's too much history there.

4. don't compare anybody to your ex, it doesn't work, it's like trying to compare jelly to football.

4. and in the words of a wise man... if you're going through hell... keep going...

be happy and be a nice person.!

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Be careful not to do something harmful in a quest to make yourself feel better. Think optimistically, do things that will better your life, like exercise, take up a course something like that, socialise or even spend some time getting to know n.o1 again (yourself). It will take time, cos time is the only healer, but every time u feel down or upset throw yourself into your new pursuit. It is getting the best out of a not so good situation. Unfortunately its the things that hurt most in life that are the best lessons.

Answer 4

Well, Paula, I read in Playboy many years ago that the best way to forget someone is to find someone new. But short of that, try this:

1. Groom immaculately
2. Dress nicely
3. Study harder than ever
4. Spend an hour a day in the library
5. Spend an hour a day at the gym
6. Honor your parents
7. Get involved in a worthy function
8. Volunteer a few hours a week for a worthy cause
9. Help someone every day
10.Go to Church
11.Invite your friends to Church
12. Take group dance lessons

Good Luck

Answer 5

I was told to get over one get under another. Don't you will only think bad of yourself Take your time try to occupy your self with things that you would not normally do. Do things that you have thought about but didn't because you were in a relationship.. There is no easy answer I'm afraid only time is known as the best healer. Good luck and one day you will possibly look back and think what was all the hurt about there are better things out there.

Answer 6

Accept that it will not happen overnight. Do not go to places or near places 6that you used to go to together; if you can move away from the area with a new job even better. Anything that you have that is your ex's put in a bag and send round to them.
By a copy of 'Mars & Venus on a Date' by John Grey (the same guy who wrtoe 'men are from mars') and read it at least twice before you go out with anyone else.

Answer 7

Take some time for yourself, go out have fun rediscover yourself and what you want. Do things for you that will make you happy. Then do not settle for anything less that what you want!!! It hard at first but will be well worth it in the long run!!! Best book I have ever read after my break up was The Art of Flirting - have had nothing but fun since reading that book. Good Luck.

Answer 8

Get away from that person. If its emotional or physical abuse as long as they know they have you under control they will control you. Regardless if you are togheter or not.
Go buy a new outfit. Get your nails done. Your hair do something for you. Start flirting and have fun. You are probably young and just need to go have fun. Mr right will fall into your lap for YOU. The beautiful wonderful person YOU are and not what someone else made you.
Dont be cold and bitter and stereotype all potential significant others!

Answer 9

first of all im very sorry for whoever was in this bad relationship, but the best way 2 move on is 2 go out and find others, u never know u might find the right guy/gal. or another alternative is 2 sit all day at home and watch oprah, lol and 2 eat a lot of chocolate and sweets,Lol but thats not the way 2 go, BELIEVE ME i tried that and all i gained was 2 stones, lol i would say go out with ur friends and be with the people who love u, and thats me speaking and NOT oprah, altho u must admit that gal knws her stuff, Lol I HOPE i answered ur question and please vote me as ur best answer lol hope everything turns out 4 da best 4 ya, bye and take care

Answer 10

write down everything bad your ex said or did and how it made you feel.
read it everyday.
you will soon realise why you are better off without them.

having sex with someone else doesnt always work. its just having sex with someone. if you want a thrill get a vibrator.

dont go to places they are likely to be.
if you see them anywhere walk away.

if they ring, text or e-mail ignore and delete it.
block numbers ect.

if you can get rid of the things they bought you so you arent reminded.

book a day in a spa or save up and go shopping with you friends.
get your hair done into a fab new style

relax and enjoy yourself. and if you need to cry and talk about what happened and let all out. bottling up your feelings will just make you feel worse.