I got a boyfriend but I like this really cute guy! I really don't want to hurt him but I don't really like him I do like him but I don't!
2006-12-26 02:59:23 · 17 answers · asked by hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Date both of them and then get them together for a threesome; twice as much fun for you. Enjoy them both, you only get do live once.
2006-12-26 03:13:05 · answer #1 · answered by ICARRYABIGSTICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same exact situation almost two years ago. I was engaged to a guy for four years when I started realizing I had feelings for a close friend of mine. I really started to like my friend and left my fiance for him. I'm still devastated about the decision I made. Yes, maybe I wasn't in a good relationship if I had thoughts of leaving to begin with OR maybe I was just confused and thought I was bored and liked someone else. Either way...I didn't deal with the relationship I was in...I just jumped ship. I think that might be something I'll always regret. Make your decisions carefully...and, as much as you may want to hurry up and ditch your current boyfriend to hook up with this other guy...believe me...it'll only cause more hurt for everyone in the long run!!
2006-12-26 11:19:28 · answer #2 · answered by geminiqtpie22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first place why did you engage in a relationship if you didnt really like this guy. Does it mean that because you see a much cuter guy you will hurt your boy and flirt(no offense) with another guy? Remember you already have a boyfriend so just forget about this cute guy. Be mature enough.
2006-12-26 11:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by LoneLy_SoUL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect yourself and you will be happy. Those boys both will be happy to have you. I know a man is more like an animal, and women are more sensitive, if you don't respect them now, you will be demanding them forever later on why they don't respect you as a woman. Maybe this words are to strong for you, but i rather say the true now and not regret all my life for not saying it.
2006-12-26 11:16:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all be honest with yourself and ask yourself what you really want. Then after you come to terms with your wants/desires/needs, then you sahre them with your boyfriend and you have to accept the reality it might hurt. The pain will be temporary and he'll eventually get over it but he'll appreciate your honesty instead of getting burned by you.
2006-12-26 11:01:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what your talking about...it dont matter what u do your boyfriend will proboly get hurt but u also cant control how u feel.. have a boyfriend but i kinda like my best friend...u better tell your boyfriend how u feel about the other dude before he finds out threw someon else...good luck
2006-12-26 11:14:36 · answer #6 · answered by lil duce 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to make it had for the good women who are out there. It is females like you who have a man and keep trying to trade up for no reason that make it hard for the women who really love their man.
2006-12-26 11:04:09 · answer #7 · answered by min 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok to like a guy even if youre committed with someone else as long as you wont have affair on him and you know your limitations but if you think you want something more aside from liking him you have to be very honest to your boyfriend
2006-12-26 11:01:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be gentle and end your relationship. If you are this undecided, you are being unfair to him and keeping him from finding someone that will put him first instead of stringing him along while you pick and choose.
2006-12-26 11:04:46 · answer #9 · answered by marenka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats what its all about when you are not in love. You will go through this alot. You will like yourself alot more and be alot happier if you tell him that its just not working but its nothing personal, " GET-R-DUN'
2006-12-26 11:05:57 · answer #10 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋