why is it ok for men but not women?

Question

why is it men can have meaningless sex but women can't . when a man has meaningless sex with women he gets a pat on the back but if its a woman shes a cheap hoe

i only say cheap hoe becuse somethin i just read not because i think it

Answer 1

Men get a pat on the back from other moral less men like themselves.
Men do NOT get pregnant.
There is a much higher chance of a woman getting an STD than there is for a man to. (And this can lead to the loss of child bearing).
And, this type of thing makes a man a Cheap Hoe just as much as it does a woman. It is just that women do not hold these pigs to a higher standard. Do they? They will STILL go out with them, knowing full well what they are and what they want. So, you can not blame it all on the male hoes can you?

Women seem to accept men and marry them no matter how many hoes they sleep with. But when it comes time to marry, men take a different view of the women they marry. It seems to me that the ladies need to set their standards a bit higher. Hold these guys to account.

And yes! I am a guy. I have seen this all of my life and do not get it.

Answer 2

Times are changing. Did you ever watch Sex in the City? Have you ever met someone like my neighbor who is a well respected Doctor and tells her female patients that it is healthy to have casual sex as long as we use protection. If your a women and enjoy casual sex just don't go around telling everyone. Also choose partners that are not likely to know each other because men talk and they like that pat on the back . Sadly it's the only way some guys feel like a man, so much to the point they lie to get that pat.

Answer 3

That's because women hold all the trump cards when it comes to sex. Any woman can get laid even an unattractive one, all she has to do is open her legs. Men, on the other hand, have to work for it. A man has to convince a woman that it's ok for her to spread her legs for him. When a man gets 5 women in 5 days it's not only for the pleasure but for the accomplishment. On the other hand, if a women does the same it's just for the pleasure.

Answer 4

First of all, we don't have "meaningless sex", we have sex for climax and pleasure. How is that meaningless? We just don't get all emotional and need "romance" (which is actually meaningless to me). If a woman wants to have sexual satisfaction, there's nothing wrong with that. The problem is that women get to emotionally involved in relationships with guys who are only interested in having sex. That's the real problem.

Answer 5

...and what about the men who have never had, as you call it - 'meaningless sex' - be it because 'they can', or because they like the look of the girl on the street corner, realising they will fulfill the dream he has had for years...but in this case will have to give her money to achieve it - be it in Altrincham or Albuquerque (will she get pat on back for emptying his wallet?).
Why is it women can be hidden from cameras at sex trials, but men are splashed over the newspapers (be he found guilty or otherwise) - we can all play the '...why can this happen, but not that? game, but when all's said and done - none of us are perfect.

Answer 6

Nealy all men can go into sex with an ability to leave all emotions behind, most women can't.

I think there is exceptions to this but on the whole a man can have sex with a female with as much emotion as eating a mince pie.

Answer 7

Hello dear the reason why females are look down upon, its because of your sex, men prize females and expect them to do the so called female chores while men have fun (sex), you see if men have sex the evidence is'nt left behind cause girls dont talk socially about who she or they had sex with, while on the other hand men do, after when you have sex with a man he'll be releasing your sex life publically. My dear feminist freind good luck on changing mens views towards females, cause im telling you that this view has existed for thousands of years and i dont think it will change for another thousand of years. Good luck on fighting the war on sexism.

Answer 8

First I have to say that this is only because it is known that women tend to want to be viewed as more pure in a whole.Women are seen as something special.Where as men are judged to be like animals.
I myself think its up to yourself for true judgment.
If you want to have meaningless sex it should have no baring weather you are a women or a man.I think everything in life is that persons choice, no one Else's.Its a choice that doesn't have to be worn on your sleeve for every ones judgment.
I myself have learned that if I am always myself weather or not someone agrees with me on something or not, I get the respect.Why because I never put "me" into their hands for the criticism.I live my life as "This is me, don't like it then you don't have to be around me but I am not changing because you think I should". You know what? Ever since I started living like that. I have more understanding from everyone more than I have ever had before.

Answer 9

That double standard was propagated by men. Don't believe it, ladies! We are just as capable of meaningless sex as men! *cough* ..er...

What I mean to say is that both men and women that "get around" without discretion will be talking about in negative tones.

Answer 10

because men are pratts, whats good for the goose is good for the gander (is a saying my gran used to say) no reason why a woman shouldn't have meaningless sex, i wouldn't advise anyone to do it but if its what someone wants to do then whynot, people should always understand the potential for danger though and STD's. She doesn't have to be cheap either, take him for all he's worth, expensive meal, expensive present, heck help yourself to his credit card while your at it lol.