A year ago, for some strange reason, he messed up. Joined bad crowds, drank, did some really bad and dangerous stuff. Unfortunately, we had to take harsh measures, he was grounded from almost everything for some months. He apologized and said he'd change. Probably he was being sincere, but he had lied several times and I couldn't be sure. So, I hcarried on w/ his punishment and this actually made him suffer a lot, especially emotionally, because despite everything he did he valued our trust. He changed completely, got over that phase, and simply can'y explain what made him mess up like that. Today he's again a great boy, we are proud of him, any parent would. But he never got over what happened. He's still sorry and avoid us, especially me. He says we remind him of those days and resents us really much because we didn't act as loving parents, did'nt forgive (not true) and didn't trust him when he was telling the truth. Can't see love in us, just strict law. Rlationship destroyed
2006-12-26
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