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i been with my girlfreidn over a year and we have a baby on the way, we were engaged, living together everything, but over the last 4 weeks she started working in the same place as me and i was gettting told by everyone that she was flirting with this lad from work and on about leaving me for him, stupidly i listened to everyone but my gf, we ended up not talking for days treating each other like crap then we ended up having a huge argument and we split up on my birthday, anyway the last week we have been talking alot and she has said to me she wants to get back with me but she wants me to proove ive changed first, how can i go about this?

2006-12-26 00:18:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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get your butt in gear...!! Proving change takes some time...you keep talking to her...learn her inside and out...be genuinely interested in her and her interests...she will notice the change and you will too...

2006-12-26 00:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by jdoug_sellers 2 · 0 0

Any time someone wants to "change" you it's bad news. I know you have a baby on the way,but you can't let someone pull your strings. Any problem you have should be able to be talked out or even agree to disagree, but you can't try to "change" you will be miserable.

2006-12-26 08:24:20 · answer #2 · answered by DeltaQueen 6 · 0 0

Change what? If this is the only mistake then that's just what it was, but if you've been a jerk during the whole relationship then you know what you have to change.

2006-12-26 08:23:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

"Trust" would be a big part, then if she's telling the truth, she has to be part of it, then "Faith" in her if she's truth full. If your having a baby and you still don't "love" her? You both better re-thing your parts in this before you go any further with this relationship.

2006-12-26 08:24:37 · answer #4 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0 0

Tell her you'll come back when she proves she's not flirting. She's really just going to say WTF? but the point is, you can't change unless she says what she wants to see different.

2006-12-26 08:22:50 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0 0

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