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well, i am meeting both on new years, but at two seperate parties, one i am meeting before midnight, and one i will be with at midnight - at a different party
is that wrong?
2006-12-26 00:23:48 · 10 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WRONG?
Do you really have to ask.
What IF, you are having such a good time with the early guy you do not want to leave, Late guy gets stiffed or early guy asks you to stay, not knowing you intend to leave early, he gets stiffed.
No matter how you play this someone gets the short end. WHY?
Why would you set up a situation where someone is inevitably going to be hurt?
Try this one, tell them both what you are up to. If either accepts it
then you will know which one stay away from. Any guy who puts up with such an arrangement will only be looking for something in the very short term, say 5 minutes.
2006-12-26 00:31:22 · answer #1 · answered by Flagger 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my where do I begin with this one??? OK first off you are single so who cares how many dates you have for one night, but.... if your really into one of these men you need to tell them both about the other and of course if you don't want either one as a steady man in your life then why bother telling right. I say if your young and single have fun go out and enjoy yourself no matter how many dates you have just don't get too hooked on one man while going on dates with other men, that's wrong and is what us women call PLAYERS. There is enough of men players in the worlds lets not add women players as well. Enjoy yourself have a good time just be honest with them and let them know up front what you are looking and what you want. Honesty is the best policy
2006-12-26 08:32:14 · answer #2 · answered by medic_lover_emti 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even worry about it? Are you formally engaged to one of the guys? Have you made any sort of commitment to an exclusive relationship to either of them? No? Then fer cripes sakes quit worrying and have a good time at both parties! Just don't get so blasted at either of them that the guys can use you for their pleasure 'cause you're passed out drunk!
2006-12-26 08:28:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
although its wrong but seems you already have decided to meet both of them. if you have not selected anyone yet then its good. if you are choosing both person, they could be jealous from each other. if you want to select one of them after meeting them its right. go for it.
2006-12-26 08:28:39 · answer #4 · answered by intrud4r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea its a big mistake to if one of them knows that its going to hUrt him go for the one you like most ask Ur heart for your sake don't do that I'm just telling you not to but its better if you listen for men its OK but for a girl its different follow ur heart
and merry Christmas.and a happy new year
i hope u have i happy life .
2006-12-26 08:35:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nah man, thats amazing! it shows that u can attract people but good luck for the second one though.. if things go well with the first guy, u might find that u want to stay with him.. so be careful and make the right decisions.. GOOD LUCK AND HAVE FUN!!
ciao
xo's
2006-12-26 08:30:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Manlaw states that nothing is morally wrong until you notice either (1) a diamond on your woman's finger or (2) a wedding band on yours.
2006-12-26 08:33:32 · answer #7 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
NO, just go with the flow and make sure that you enjoy every moment you spend with your dates so there's no regret.
2006-12-26 08:30:09 · answer #8 · answered by vodka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well women say it is wrong when us guys do it. so i shall say yes it is.
~peace~
2006-12-26 08:26:46 · answer #9 · answered by East Texan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no girl that's good.theres a saying,collect and collect then choose.
2006-12-26 08:35:55 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋