well i don't know if i love him or not because well i think other guys are hot too and i try to impress them.. do i love him or not?
2006-12-26 00:30:18 · 11 answers · asked by danielle t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that means you don't love him.
2006-12-26 00:43:03 · answer #1 · answered by It is what it is 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The short answer is "No." You are obviously still hung up in the sexual attraction stage. Thinking guys are hot is lust, sexual attraction, not love. Love is a conscious decision you make to care for and look out for the other persons best interests. Being in love will not blind you to the sexual attraction you feel toward others. Love will guide your actions to avoid entanglements that would harm your relationship. You don't really sound like you're ready to commit to anyone. That's not bad, just how it is. Hopefully, you will reach a stage where how hot the guy looks is less important and the character of their person is more important. Good luck.
2006-12-26 08:38:14 · answer #2 · answered by Magic One 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to see that other guys are hot, but to try to impress them too? Sorry. Not love.
2006-12-26 08:33:38 · answer #3 · answered by roswell75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what i gather is that u are not sure of what u want, if u are trying to impress other guys otherthan your man then you dont love him, why should you want to impress somebody else when you already have a man, let him go so that he can find someone that will want to impress him like you try to impress other men.
2006-12-26 08:37:08 · answer #4 · answered by white fung 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is wanting the other person to be happy. You're not even thinking about him. Stay single.
2006-12-26 08:33:57 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you really love someone, no one else attracts you, even the people you thought were once cute can't even compare to him. If you question it, then you're not sure of it, then you're not in love.
2006-12-26 08:44:30 · answer #6 · answered by Smart Blonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is it that you want to go home to? That you want to curl up to at night? that you wouldn't give up for anything in the world?
He is the man you love
2006-12-26 08:33:01 · answer #7 · answered by Matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are too young to know what love is......enjoy life and when you fall in love, you will know it...
2006-12-26 08:34:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you dont.. stay single... F a lot of dudes, get it out of your system, thats what i had to do.. i mean with girls though LoL
2006-12-26 08:32:34 · answer #9 · answered by Jesus Built My Hotrod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u obviously have something wrong in ur relationship, think about it and discuss it.
2006-12-26 08:35:20 · answer #10 · answered by pickles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋