2006-12-26 00:26:37 · 27 answers · asked by pyramidmobile 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Romance should become unique for each married couple...women want you to know them so well that you know how to respond to them in any situation...that's why it is hard...you really have to work at getting to know them...not just their body...talk to her first...little "commercial acts of romance" like candy and flowers...don't have staying power on their own
2006-12-26 00:32:14 · answer #1 · answered by jdoug_sellers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I get deeper in love with my wife as each day passes. Just be yourself. I find that talking to each other all the time, discussing a myriad of topics, helps create a little world which only the two of you can share. Have your own private little jokes, your own 'petnames' for each other. Be there for her always but especially when she cries over something and you can soothe her with your reassurance that everything will be all right. Wrap your arms around her and hug her. Nothing more romantic than a cuddle. Try to put her before yourself as much as possible. Try some poetry. Open doors for her. Smile each time you look at her. Tell her often that you love her.
2006-12-26 17:15:06 · answer #2 · answered by barefoot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do candlelight dinner, but make the meal yourself, if you can't then you should hire a cater. Not only that, put on some soft music and candlelight the kitchen table and the living room(don't forget to spread red roses on tables). Don't forget a bottle of delicous wine (in a WINE glass; not a regular cup) for that classy, sophisticated look. It should look expensive so she sill think that you are willing to spend any amount of money on her. At the end of your dinner, if you can, sit in front of the moonlight and give her jewellery and roses. Oh, and don't forget to wear something nice! Love still has a budget so look for bargains! Give her love notes at work if you like, talk about ways to improve your relationship. You could also surprise her at work with flowers and candy and poems and singing to her(if you can), there are lots of things to do. Good Luck.
2006-12-26 08:36:22 · answer #3 · answered by calypsocaper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why ask such a silly question? Nobody can tell you how to make your wife feel that you love her, enjoy being with her, and value and respect her. Showing that your spouse IS the most important thing in the world to you is inevitable- IF you love, value, and respect her. Sure, flowers, candy, and presents are nice, but in themselves, meaningless. It's the silly, daily things that show her how you feel. Opening doors for your wife. Choosing restaurants cuz SHE likes them. Putting the toilet seat down. Not leaving your clothes lay on the floor. Listening to her opinions- AND behaving as though her ideas are important to you.
2006-12-26 08:58:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is for all men out there. It's not so much that we need our husbands/boyfriends to be romantic, we as women need to have our emotions fed! We want to know that we still look good, we want to cuddle after making love, we want to be talked to while making love! Wew want a slap on the rear sometimes, we want to dragged back into bed, we loved to be touched and caressed! We take all these things together and put them into the romantic bag, but it's really feeding our emotions! We love getting flowers so that others can see them and know that we are loved. Men liked to have their egos stroked, and its the same for women. A man wants his woman to tell him that he just made good love to her, or that she still gets turned on when he enters the room. If you are in a marriage relationship and you feed the emotons and stroke the ego, everything else will fall into place! Communicate through conversation and body language.
2006-12-26 08:42:59 · answer #5 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her flower arrangements once a month, for a year.
Do more work around the house before she asks.
Pick a few days a month to do everything possible so she has aboslutely nothing to do, and can get a complete break.
Watch a chick flick with her, once in a while.
Take her to a game.
When the weather is right, take her for a balloon ride.
These are just general suggestions, you should know her better than us.
2006-12-26 08:33:45 · answer #6 · answered by AnswerGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a hard question, seeing as how we don't know you, and don't know how romantic you already are, or if you lack romance completely.
In any case, ask your wife what turns her on, what makes her happy, what makes her toes curl. Bring her breakfast in bed? Draw a bath and put rose petals in it. Be home before she is one evening, be all dressed up, and let her know you're taking her out to the best restaurant in town, head to the bedroom to get dressed up too. Buy her a bottle of her favorite perfume. Etc, Etc.
2006-12-26 08:29:26 · answer #7 · answered by SunShineShoes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's really nice 2 hear.
i'm sure u know a little what she likes, what makes her happy, what turns her on.
u don't have 2 get her big things , just small romantic things that will show her u love her, like a sweet note every here and there, a rose, just call 2 tell her u miss her, make dinner, treat her out, surprise her... good luck
girls like 2 b loved and given attention 2 (who doesn't?)
2006-12-26 08:31:55 · answer #8 · answered by pickles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife is lucky to have an attentive husband. . .women want to feel cherished.
If you make it a ritual/habit to help her out daily. . .help with dinner, dishes, etc. and do little things here and there to show her respect and love. . . it will go a very long way and she will be far more receptive to and more apt to give. . .romance.
I can tell you after 14 years of marriage. . .having a man show he cares my helping out around the house. . .is sexy!!!!
Open doors for her, put on her coat for her. . .it all ties in.
Prove to her that the Art Of Chivalry is not dead and you will reap the benefits.
2006-12-26 10:21:22 · answer #9 · answered by YuckItUp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is kinda sticky.Maybe you and she could go revisit where you met.Or,do the things that you both enjoyed doing together before the marriage,take a second honeymoon.Or,just keep it simple...run her a nice bubble bath,full body massage,light some candles and perhaps when you make love do something a bit different.Only you know your wifes likes and dislikes.If she's into chick flicks,take a night when your both home and have time for each other and watch it together.
2006-12-26 08:42:39 · answer #10 · answered by jennifer j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask what it is that she thinks is romantic. don't make the mistake of going all overboard and then letting it die down the idea is slow and steady wins the race. a bit of advise: men are like microwaves they get hot and finished real fast (even if they don't want to admit it) and women are like regular ovens it takes us a long time to pre-heat and a long time to cool down. All of this is stuff I am sure you have heard already but sometimes it is good to hear it again. best of luck and stay in love it is a dying state.
2006-12-26 08:38:57 · answer #11 · answered by moonflower 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋