How would you like to be proposed...?? Not all guys are dashingly handsme but if at all somene had to propose?

Question

There would be a lot of guys in your neighbourhood (good looking, average and the not so good looking)

As as girl .....when a guy approaches you for friendship or date what would be your reaction? How would you want them to approach you? What would offend you? What would make you feel you are being admired? What would turn you off? If you do not accept a person's proposal for a date or friendship...... what would be your views of him.

I live in a small town where most people know each other. Gossip travels fast. How do you deal with such a situation? To make matters worse I work out of town. How do I make friends in a short period of one month (my leave)?????

Answer 1

Wow--that's a lot of questions. As for how we like to be approached? It definitely helps to comment on some kind of common interest--if she's looking at a magazine about the Oscar race, you can ask who she thinks will win, or if she's carrying a Barnes & Noble bag, you can ask, "Find any good books?" (Other clues could be taken from a slogan on her T-shirt, or even the weather!) Try to keep the question casual, and whatever you do, don't physically crowd her. Also, don't push it. If she answers but doesn't seem to want to talk about it, grin and wish her a good day and move on. Hopefully you'll see her again, and she'll trust you more because you weren't clingy the first time. And if she doesn't seem at all interested... c'est la vie. You want someone who *is* interested, and you never know why she isn't into you--it could be that she doesn't like you, but it could be that she's already involved with someone, or she's not feeling well, or she's going through a bad time at work. Even if you don't immediately make a friend, each exchange is practice for the next one.

Answer 2

Wow. You have a lot of questions. I can't answer them all, but I can tell you I have a lot of guys approach me. The ones who come on strong always turn me off. I don't like a man who feels he has to show off to get me to notice him. I like quiet, intelligent guys with a good sense of humor. I want a man who can actually carry on a conversation. Honesty is more important than looks. If a man talks to me and he seems kind I will always consider having a coffee with him to get to know him a little better. As for small towns, they have been that way since we invented towns....lots of nosy people! Lol.