What should i do?
im 13 years old and i think im in love w/ my best friends brother which is 15 ive liked him for 4 years but now i think im i love with him his sister say that he likes me to but the problem is that ive never ever had a boy fried what should i do
2006-12-26 00:23:14 · 8 answers · asked by jessica m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Slow down. You can't be in love with someone if you've never even gone out or really gotten to know them. If you started liking him 4 years ago that would have made you nine. What do you call love at 9 years old. I call it childish.
2006-12-26 00:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some theories: Perhaps this is only a crush. Then again, perhaps the brother is the boy you know the best and when you are pressured to find love through the media and your peers, the brother seems the best choice.
Whatever the case, just remember to value your friend as much as you do now.
2006-12-26 08:34:52 · answer #2 · answered by Mercenary Poet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn`t a lot you can do at the moment, just let him know that you`re there, remember that you`re only 13 so don`t let any boy force you into doing anything at that age, there could be very serious consequences.
This boy knows you like him, It`s up to him now.
You`ll probably have a lot of boyfriends before you finally find the one you want to settle down with.
First love can be very painful emotionally, be sensible and you`ll be ok.
2006-12-26 08:43:55 · answer #3 · answered by Tatty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax you are 13 you have a long time to go you will go through lots and lots of guys. Go on a few dates with this guy before you say your in love with him. Just try to hangout with him and take each day as it comes. And please don't be the next 15 year old getting pregnant its not worth it you are to young to be worrying about guys.
2006-12-26 08:39:27 · answer #4 · answered by #1techfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First recognize its a long life...this is nothing but a problem waiting to happen...you are focusing on only him and it is causing you to fixate...see other guys...date in groups...have some fun!
2006-12-26 08:26:22 · answer #5 · answered by jdoug_sellers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age??.....puppy love, to be sure. Be nice to him and pay some attention to him, slight flattery along the way and in short oredr you and he will be tight.
2006-12-26 08:25:54 · answer #6 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT SHOULD YOU DO?!? You must say to him about your love... Love is very difficult, you know, so you must start right now!!!
2006-12-26 08:32:32 · answer #7 · answered by bitterman_the_red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely nothing, he will say anything, you shouldn't have to say anything. He's there, your there, let time take it's course.
2006-12-26 08:26:20 · answer #8 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋