How obvious does a girl have to be for you to realise she is checking you out? I am talking of girls you know, not a stranger.
2006-12-26 00:17:09 · 13 answers · asked by AussieRockchic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm oblivious. She would have to come up to me and hit me between the eyes for me to get that she was given me the eye.
2006-12-26 00:20:21 · answer #1 · answered by Texan 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but despite our most fervent wishes, we are not mind-readers. People glance away continuously as they converse, look around them as the walk, glance here and there as they undertake routine tasks like putting on a coat, opening a locker, starting the car...and frequently make eye contact with lots of other people. One learns very early in life that those brief eye contacts are inconsequential and that only a retard, a fool or a fiend responds to them as if they were personal invitations to intimacy.
You want a guy to be aware that you're interested, you got to be adult enough to tell him directly. None of this silly little-girl "shy stares" or the even sillier, more childish crap of trying to get a mutual acquaintance to inform the guy of your interest. You pull this kind of immature bull and you prove you're NOT READY for serious adult relationships.
2006-12-26 00:25:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys are dense. So, the more obvious you are, the clearer the message is! However, I don't suggest that you start licking your lips while making google eyes at him, that's just a little too much! :)
2006-12-26 00:19:17 · answer #3 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We notice, but it usually doesn't mean the same thing as when a guy does it...it's usually not worth the risk to pursue it
2006-12-26 00:20:46 · answer #4 · answered by jdoug_sellers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Glances are often misunderstood by both sexes. You should walk up and politely compliment him. People tend to not say enough nice things to eachother.
2006-12-26 00:26:40 · answer #5 · answered by AnswerGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the lady would have to be very obvious for me -- if only to get past the "ME you are interested in ME OMG" --- and i would not notice and if i did would conclude you had something in your eye
2006-12-26 00:41:20 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I know them, they will almost have to say it, because I already know them as friends, so if she wants more it would have to be very obvious.
2006-12-26 00:27:09 · answer #7 · answered by P_a94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought I noticed but I did not notice all the time.
Unfortunately my girlfriend did.
2006-12-26 00:22:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We notice! (In fact, a lot of us ''notice'' being ''checked out'' when we're not being checked out. I think that's filed under ''Wishful thinking!'')
2006-12-26 00:24:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy's arent as oblivious as you think..... we notice just as much as you girls do...
2006-12-26 00:19:33 · answer #10 · answered by Jesus Built My Hotrod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋