He has a generation name meaning he is the 3rd. so i have reason to believe that he is using either his grandfather's identity/his dad's. i also have reason to beleive that he may even have a fake id/ssn to avoid paying me child support.
2006-12-26 01:31:08 · 11 answers · asked by i'm bossy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
good luck in finding him.
I used to work in Child Support Enforcement and know that finding them is the hardest part. Many will tell you they can find him (for a fee - up front) but they usually come up empty handed and keep the money.
Keep looking for him and ask people on here if they know where he is. Say he's come into a small inheritance or something like that. Be sure to register with your local child support enforcement office. they have all kinds of tools to use to find these deadbeat parents. the last program I worked on was one to identify bank accounts and other assets to sieze.
good luck
2006-12-26 01:55:19 · answer #1 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have a blessing in disguise. My deadbeat ex who didn't work for most of our marriage went on a campaign for custody since he didn't want to pay. The authorities, heavily influenced by fathers rights people, were thrilled that he took any interest. So they gave him my daughter. I find out later, years after the divorce, that he had got a former girlfriend pregnant years before, and threatened her with a custody fight if she tried to get child support. She backed down. Didn't get a cent. But kept her child. So be careful what you wish for. Attorneys routinely counsel these guys to get maximum visitation of custody so as to reduce or eliminate child support.
2006-12-26 01:38:41 · answer #2 · answered by silverside 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My only solution to you is that if he is going through such great lenghts to keep himself under the radar you will have to wait because he will make a mistake somewhere, sometime and when he does the law will pick up on it....you can also go into the white pages on the puter and put both his dad's and grandad's name and see what you come up with, who knows it could be just that simple and you might find him in a flash............
2006-12-26 01:37:54 · answer #3 · answered by shortieperez1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 17:44:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact social services and get a social worker to use the Federal Parent Locator Service (FPLS). It can search loads of computer systems. He may not have managed to fake/evade everything.
2006-12-26 01:38:55 · answer #5 · answered by ricochet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The IRS only people to deal with. He must have a job and some
kind of income, I go to one of their offices and report him.
2006-12-26 01:36:05 · answer #6 · answered by Ammy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with Social Services. They should be able to give you good advice on how to track him down.
2006-12-26 01:33:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I despise deadbeat dads... unless you know of someone who may know where to find him... other than hiring someone to help you... I don't quite know for sure....
2006-12-26 01:42:27 · answer #8 · answered by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a job and pay your own bills, you should have had your stuff together before having a baby
2006-12-26 01:36:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hire a private investigator to track him down
2006-12-26 01:32:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋