i do not love him but sex is the best i've had..............so he is like all the time do u love me i do not know what to do .............well i mean i know what i want still i do not want him get hurt.........
2006-12-26 00:03:08 · 18 answers · asked by tiptop 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He'll get hurt anyway when your actions show him that you don't love him. Don't lie to protect his feelings. Just tell him he has good stuff and that's why you spend time with him. That's the truth right?
2006-12-26 00:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by hiclaude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong to lead someone on for any reason. The sex might be good, but great sex happens when both you and your partner love each other and trust each other completely. That adds a whole dimension that just isn't possible with casual sex.
2006-12-26 08:22:19 · answer #2 · answered by A C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say the sex is the best you have ever had but u dont know whether you love him?????
Well... then this is only "sex", as there are no emotions involved, i think its best that you tell him that you like him but not falling in love with him... rather then him keep questioning you all the time!
2006-12-26 08:16:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you're not making love you're having SEX. Men think they are the only ones that do this. WELCOME TO THE OTHER SIDE OF THE STORY. Women do it to, just to get off. If you are not straight with him he is going to get hurt. At least we can be better at casual sex than men so tell him what you want from him and let him decide if he wants to be your playmate.
2006-12-26 08:12:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion;
Making love is when you care about the other person and want them to have as much pleasure as you do. You can make love to your boy friend,husband or a total stranger.
Fu$$ing is when you just want to "get off". This can also be with your boy friend or husband, but normally is with a total stranger.
2006-12-26 08:09:08 · answer #5 · answered by Rocketmaniac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, people more commonly engage in sex for sexual gratification. In my opinion, the expression of love is only a small part of this....usually at the beginning and perhaps the end.
2006-12-26 08:14:53 · answer #6 · answered by curiousJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it wrong to purposefully hurt someone just for the sake of it?
Whatever your answer to my question is, the answer your looking for will become clear.
2006-12-26 08:06:53 · answer #7 · answered by Mercenary Poet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not if you are a Player......If you fall and love with someone
and they use you for just sex, I'm sure you will be okay with that. Right!?
2006-12-26 08:06:48 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. US of A, Baby! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're doing the right thing. If the sex is great and your using protection, then go for it. It's best not to lie to him and you're not.
2006-12-26 08:06:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?-Are you ready to end your "teen-age life" & be a mother?-& you say you don't love him-you may hurt yourself too,-yes, it's wrong. (But I'm not your "father" so do whatever you want.)
2006-12-26 08:17:58 · answer #10 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋