Family & Relationships - 26 December 2006

Never seen him in person, know him through a friend

2006-12-26 06:50:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my best friend is havin trouble with two girls that like him n he likes both of them but doesn't know which one he wants to date. plz help me help him!

2006-12-26 06:50:03 · 9 answers · asked by rockinbeauty 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 14 months got in a right strop on xmas eve because I asked him why he wasn't bringing his kids here on xmas day to open their pressies......he said I didnt invite them (he know's they don't need an invite, they are always welcome here) he said I was looking for an argument and stormed off, leaving my pressies and not taking his! he told me not to text him ever again or ring him or talk to his mates!! I know this may be a silly question but whats happening here? Bearing in mind he has practically lived at my house for 14 months and not paid a penny, oh and has his own place! He is a mummys boy 2. Any ideas?

2006-12-26 06:49:55 · 35 answers · asked by Lucky 1 in Singles & Dating

In the state of Ohio, do you have to apply for a marriage license in the same county in which the marriage will be taking place? For instance, if your wedding is taking place in Franklin County, do you need to go to the Franklin County Courthouse to get your marriage license or can you get your license from the Delaware County Courthouse?

2006-12-26 06:49:55 · 14 answers · asked by abilee1017 2 in Weddings

I like a girl but i found out that a nother guy likes her too, What to do? I also need advice on how to aproach her.

2006-12-26 06:49:51 · 9 answers · asked by Superman 3 in Singles & Dating

who was at one time a girlfriend she is no longer that and i if sex is what makes her one then it has been years at least 4. she steals from me anything food forks money medications . she
has ocd does not work . is the most lazy person i have ever met if i cook a fantastic meal for her and i and ask her to help wash or wash the dishes i have to check later to see if any are clean as most are far from it and i am not picky at all .
i loan her money every month she buys candy no food i mean no food at all and goes to the savation army every month for her food.
she has no desire to do anything other then watch tv . she will not leave her apartment priour to 2 pm or 3 pm depending on what shows are on .
she is of no help to me . i pay her to walk my dog when i am at work and i really think she does not even walk the dog once around the block. she is a cat lady and refers to it as her baby
she has been in mental health hospitail for months at a time
what should i do .

2006-12-26 06:49:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What are some signs that show tht ur ex bf/gf want to b together again?
like..how wud he/she act around u..

2006-12-26 06:49:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My gf and I had an arguement the past weekend, and I feel it really damaged our relationship. I feel that we haven't been very close for the past 2 weeks, so when I saw her talking to other guys at the bar, it pissed me off. I told her that it makes me mad that she has talked to other guys more than me the past 2 weeks. I know they are friends, but I am a jealous person and it drives me nuts. She is a great person and I could not live without her. What is the best way to say sorry?

2006-12-26 06:48:46 · 18 answers · asked by dwarner33 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 06:48:27 · 13 answers · asked by WORRIED 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy that I was casual with, more or less friends w/benefits, mostly mixed signals, still wants to go on vacation w/me even though I talked to him the other day, said that he had met a girl already, said it is what it is w/ me, & probably the new girl too, if he's still wanting to go on vacation w/me & my parents even. So what is going on here? What is he thinking? By the way, I wanted to show him that I'm not playing his games of making me jealous, but I text messaged him Merry Xmas, & now I feel retarded that I did after he told me about that girl =(

2006-12-26 06:47:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 06:47:28 · 11 answers · asked by deep d 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay, my boyfriend just broke up w/ me. But i still love him, more than ANYTHING, and by the way he's acting, he still loves me too. mean while, when i was down and blue, my bestfriend Nick was there the entier time. Just today, he admited that he loved me. what should i do?????

2006-12-26 06:47:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I wasnt bright in highschool and i want to go to community college to be closer to home but my friend told me i was too stupid to do anything in life such as become a doctor or a lawyer etc.Now its been 2 years and im holding off college because i think im going to fail. I feel bad what should i do??

2006-12-26 06:47:05 · 38 answers · asked by MS. DAISY 2 in Friends

i haven't heard from a guy friend of mine in over a week. He just had a death in the family. Is he just dealing with his loss? Normally I wouldn't questions people's actions during a time like this, but this guy is so on and off all the time anyways. Right before all this happened he admited he had some feelings for me.

2006-12-26 06:45:55 · 8 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

i am sad i have a friend whom is married and his wife found out about me and now is flipping off tha deep end now what do i do? he is a internet friend and age 45 and i know his name is not tha name he told me and his wife is a total snot and is not even happy that she has him and i dont know what to do. how do i tell him that i know about his marrage even tough he is married ( ha never told me) i just wish that he could see how happy he iis when i am talking to him he is souch a sweety and i dont want to loose him hes always been there for me and i know i still need him with me and he i know still needs me so what do i do??

2006-12-26 06:45:33 · 3 answers · asked by ksfarose 2 in Friends

In the past week and a half, I have had two dreams about a woman I know through work. I am attracted to her and we share a strong connection. But she has a live-in boyfriend and I am married, so I have never acted on it nor would I. My wife pays me no attention and rarely even lets me touch her. I have never had these dreams before and am not sure why it happened this time. The amount of time spent with this woman has not changed either, so it is not as if I am all of a sudden around her every day of the week. I see her about once a week for about 2 hours. Am I crazy? Why is my mind dreaming about other women all of a sudden?

2006-12-26 06:44:52 · 23 answers · asked by Jaybo 2 in Singles & Dating

my question is what does it mean if a guy is'nt takign his girlfriend seriously and does'nt have say a feelingg of the relationship he's in with his girlfriend like it's not meaningful to him.

2006-12-26 06:44:41 · 9 answers · asked by marcyknndy 1 in Friends

their spouse is only put on earth to satisfy their every desire. Such people take no responsibility for their own happiness and spirituality. No one person can be all things to another person. Those are high expectations for one person. No one can possibly meet those expectations. How can someone take it personal when their spouse does not meet their expectations. If you get married and think your spouse is the alpha and omega, you got another thing coming. Marriage is supposed to be a whole lot more than an individual expectations. I ask this question because everyone on YA is always whining about cheating spouses. Honestly, what can you really expect. People don't go into marriages thinking their that their spouse is going to cheat. But it is seems like it always happens to those that least suspect it. Wonder why? I'm not saying cheating is ok, but really. We get married trusting our spouse will NEVER have sex with another person again. Such trust in another person leads to disaster.

2006-12-26 06:44:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just got a cell phone and I am able to text, and send messages...is there anyone willing to have a text friendship with me out there? I am decent, 34, male, just wanting to meet new people in an unconventional way! If interested, drop me a line and I will swap numbers with you!! Take care, happy new year!!

2006-12-26 06:43:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-26 06:43:29 · 29 answers · asked by renew69 2 in Singles & Dating

I told my close female friend that I needed time away from her to clear my head after she kept giving me undecisive answers if we'll go further than friends.She said if that's how I feel then she respects that and that maybe I do need time to sort my head out.(told her I don't know what to think\do anymore about her undecisiveness,am confused,need to clear my head).

The conversation ended on this note, with her saying:

She then said there are too many ppl in the world who are 2 faced and selfish,who don't value individuals like she does.Is hurt that OTHER ppl don't value ppl the way she does.MEANING???

Not spoken for 3 weeks now.(the longest ever!)What she thinking\feeling?Will she EVER speak to me again?What do I do now?

For xmas I sent her a xmas card and a small teddy(saying special friend)-just saying merry xmas and happy new year. I wrote a short message how special and unique she is+ how important the friendship is to me.

Who'd get 1st in touch again?

2006-12-26 06:42:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

en my gran was dying she opened her eyes and looked at me at the moment of death. do u think she knew who i was? i have heard that during the final moments of death that u have the understanding of a baby so i am not so sure about this

2006-12-26 06:41:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What do parents think about a Christian based After School program for Teens to get their home work done and provide a safe program environment where they learn about faith, create meals for homeless, make friends, play sports, etc. No worries about who your child is with, what they are watching on TV or what they are doing on the internet..........

Would parents pay $3 an hour to have their teens in this environment? or what would Parents pay for this service?

2006-12-26 06:41:24 · 9 answers · asked by goodflgirl2k 2 in Family

I have been married 18 years. We have a 4 year old daughter. I have tried for years to get my husband to participate more in the raising of our child. I have worked throughout the marriage and for many years earned more than my husband. ( Not now). He also left all housekeeping to me. He also at one point decided that he didn't want to go out but have people over. We live in the suburbs and I like going to the City but he refuses. For the last year, we have lived like roommates but he is really pitching in on the childcare and housework. It has gone on so long, though, that I am very, I don't know, disgusted, and would like to separate for a while. He says that if we separate, he just wants a divorce directly. I believe that a separation is better and then maybe we can wok it out.

2006-12-26 06:40:54 · 19 answers · asked by Cindy K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, My mother says that that she sent me out a gift card in the mail, and it never showed up. So, she canceled it, and had another one straight from the company sent out to me again. She is in delaware and I am in myrtle beach. What could it be? I had mentioned dell to my grandmother, however someone else told me it could be walmart. I still havent received it. I do not know the name of the company, guess I'll have to wait. Any ideas?

2006-12-26 06:40:22 · 3 answers · asked by SpiralWeaver85 1 in Family

He was involved with her way before i knew him and they broke up and he got w/ me i knew she was pregnant before we got together and i planned on not getting with him but we kinda fell in love and u can't stop that i guess.. she's had the baby & I feel jealous of them because i've always wnted to have my hubbys first child and alot has changed since she was born. im so jealous of his ex. but how do i get over this because i want to be with him and work things out. i see he cares about this baby so much and he's even got a tatoo of her name on his arm now. How do i get over feeling this way and being so jealous...i feel kind of bad because i just want her to go away because i know once she came in the picture i became last in his life, but at the same time i'm happy and proud because he is taking care of his responsiblilty despite how much he hates his baby's mother. can you guys please give me some advice on what to do and how to stop being so jealous of him having a kid by another gir

2006-12-26 06:39:06 · 9 answers · asked by t0xic_n_addictiv3 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-26 06:38:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My live in boyfriend of 8 months has a teenage daughter who lives across the country ... Even though she's far far away, I'm pretty uncomfortable with it. We're perfect for eachother, but when it comes to one day marrying him, I don't think I can go through with it. One day I'd like to share a new experience of child birth with a first timer as well. Not with someone who's been through it... Any of you think the same way.. Have you or do you have a bf that has a kid? How do you deal?

2006-12-26 06:38:12 · 19 answers · asked by Jenna S 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey all girls! if there are any Christian girls out there, would ya tell me so we can talk. I have some major issues to talk to you about. If you would just simply leave your email address and i will contact you.

2006-12-26 06:37:23 · 7 answers · asked by me who? 2 in Friends

I met this girl of my life a year ago from another country, we got very close and she suggested that we get engaged.

And we did so in 6 months after we first got together. Everyone in my world was informed of this 'fabulous' piece of news.

She went back to her home country soon after. Her father objected our relationship. She asked me to wait while she tries to persuade Daddy. I agreed.

I visited her in the 10th month and we had great fun. A year passed since we are together, I made a few mistakes that pissed her off, but I was deeply and sincerely apologetic to that. (I was faithful throughout)

She recently told me that she seriously thought about us. She felt that she likes me, but she is not sure if she loves me. She admitted sometimes think about her ex. She added that she wanted to call her ex but she did not do so, because she still has me. She apologised for being so selfish. I told her I still love her. Should I go on? She still have feelings for me..

2006-12-26 06:37:21 · 12 answers · asked by r 2 in Weddings