My boyfriend of 14 months got in a right strop on xmas eve because I asked him why he wasn't bringing his kids here on xmas day to open their pressies......he said I didnt invite them (he know's they don't need an invite, they are always welcome here) he said I was looking for an argument and stormed off, leaving my pressies and not taking his! he told me not to text him ever again or ring him or talk to his mates!! I know this may be a silly question but whats happening here? Bearing in mind he has practically lived at my house for 14 months and not paid a penny, oh and has his own place! He is a mummys boy 2. Any ideas?
2006-12-26 06:49:55 · 35 answers · asked by Lucky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like a nob to me mate ! i think he was just looking for an argument ...you sound pretty level headed to me, dump him girl and get yourself a real man !!!!
2006-12-26 06:57:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha wanted an excuse to leave. Its just a pity that it means you getting hurt. Was in the same situation myself last xmas eve. Do as he says, dont txt and dont ring. Try to move on. If he comes running back, just remember that if he can leave you like that once he can sure do it again. After this happens, you sit and feel like a mugg for letting a man use you as he did......my ex was a mummys boy 2, and he cried over everything.lol
2006-12-26 06:55:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.this may be an seemingly selfish/illogical/frustrated side of your boyfriend you have not been confronted with yet, up until now. you may think that 14 months is enough time to get to know someone really well, but it's not.
i can relate to this behaviour, as i am a mommies boy too!
2.your boyfriend is looking for a way out of the relationship, and wants to use some meaningless argument to do so
2006-12-26 07:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by asher_richards 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have got into it with the babies mom over something and it made him down right mad. And you were there for him to take it out on. If he doesn't return when he's had a chance to cool down I would say move on. Maybe that was his way of ending your relationship.
2006-12-26 06:54:40 · answer #4 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could there possibly be an underlying problem with him that he maybe isnt ready to talk about yet, if its been good for 14 months and your involved with his kids etc it sounds like maybe somethings up with him and he just needs a breather. its not uncommon to take things out on those you love. just offer for him to talk and see what happens, but only if your prepared for the fact that contacting him might bring with it the possibility that this is for good. good luck
2006-12-26 07:37:18 · answer #5 · answered by cookie 85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mummy's boys are bad news... and they rarely change... I was unlucky (or stupid) enough to give several years of my life to two mummy's boys (not at the same time, lol) Complete waste of time... as long as mummy's around, you'll never live up to her. He sounds immature too, which is connected to the apron strings thing... Hmmmm.....
2006-12-26 07:13:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are dealing with a moocher and someone that doesn't want to be with you. Is he possibly using you? How do you let someone live with you that doesn't pay a dime? Reevaluate the relationship and get rid of the mama's boy.
2006-12-26 06:56:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! That guy is a lunatic! I don't know what was going on in his mind. And he didn't pay a penny while he was living at your house? Wow. I would be glad to get rid of a guy who does things like you said!
2006-12-26 06:54:03 · answer #8 · answered by girly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he has something to hide, that's why he has cut all tie's, well do as he ask's this will wind him up more that your ignoring him. He has been using you and now you must get stronger and move on. Prove that you don't need him and are worth more than him. Good luck.
2006-12-26 07:19:56 · answer #9 · answered by ulrighwessels 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most relationship arguments have nothing to do with the matter at hand. He is most likely angry about something else. Your best bet is to ask him why/if he is upset about something and talk about it. Communicate with him. Hope that helps.
2006-12-26 06:54:42 · answer #10 · answered by dumpbullets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds so immature, honestly i feel sorry for you cause he sounds so bloody mental.
Just try and forget about him, i know that's easy to say but do you really want to be with someone that goes off the handle like that
2006-12-26 06:52:19 · answer #11 · answered by Delete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋