This guy that I was casual with, more or less friends w/benefits, mostly mixed signals, still wants to go on vacation w/me even though I talked to him the other day, said that he had met a girl already, said it is what it is w/ me, & probably the new girl too, if he's still wanting to go on vacation w/me & my parents even. So what is going on here? What is he thinking? By the way, I wanted to show him that I'm not playing his games of making me jealous, but I text messaged him Merry Xmas, & now I feel retarded that I did after he told me about that girl =(
2006-12-26 06:47:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Does he still want my booty is that it?
2006-12-26 06:48:18 · update #1
He thinks he is Don Juan, I think you should sink his boat.
He is showing blatant disrespect for you. Don't put up with it he will think it is ok to do to everyone else.
2006-12-26 06:53:55 · answer #1 · answered by Jungleroy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound like you want commitment, and he doesn't.
It sounds like he wants consequence free booty and you have given him that - established that as a norm of the relationship.
You aren't going to get commitment by giving booty, you are going to guarantee you get no commitment.
The other girl is likely another "friends with benefits" or "booty buddy" for him, just like you.
2006-12-26 06:52:54 · answer #2 · answered by Curly 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He wants to spend time with you, or he wouldn't want to go with you and your parents on vacation. May want more than FWB now.
2006-12-26 06:52:54 · answer #3 · answered by rwhz199 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Free Vacation and FWB.......hmmmm life is good for this guy
2006-12-26 07:09:48 · answer #4 · answered by CuriousMishawaka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a player and wants his cake and eat eat eat it too. just let him be.
2006-12-26 06:52:48 · answer #5 · answered by aries6604 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋