The guy I have been seeing since June (long distance) recently disappeared for a month after a conflict that we had. Well, on Christmas Eve he called to wish a Merry Christmas. We have had a good relationship, despite the fact that he lives in Mexico (I met him there this summer and have flown to see him and his family/friends). The conflict we had was due to a miscommunication and he thought that I wanted to break up because he didn't understand something I said (his main language is Spanish and mine is English and although we are both bilingual we still have some problems with that).
When he called the other day he acted like nothing ever happened although I had called him several times and e-mailed him over the past weeks. I wanted to know why he hasn't called me and he said he wanted to talk about it later because he was calling from his cousin's cell phone and he just wanted to wish a merry Christmas.
Well, he hasn't called me yet and I am annoyed because I think he owes me an explanation-5 wks. is a long time. He said he still loves me and he hasn't been ignoring me, but that's all he said on Christmas Eve. I really love him but I don't think it is fair of him to do what he did. Does he need to be kicked to the curb or does he deserve a second chance?
I will also be moving to a city near his in about a year whether we are together or not (I have a job there), so there is a possibility that we could have a closer relationship.
I am confused, so any advice is welcomed.
2006-12-26
07:18:24
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