recently my girlfriend told me dat she wanted to end our relationship,in fact the day before she told me dat,she went to a wedding and met another guy there.when i told her i still loved her she told me she was fed up with me always being jealous,i told her that i will change coz she means a lot for me but she did not change her mind..then some days later she admitted that she was with the other guy,but also told me that she doesn't love him and just wanted to know how it could be to be with another guys.she said we could be friends and i accepted but then i told her it was time for me to forget her,on hearing this she told me that she wont forget me and that she has kept all the poems n stuffs i gave her.I thought i still had a chance n so for xmas i covered several kilometres to see her n give her a gift but she turned me down again.today i told her i've decided to date other girls cause i want to move on and i'm sure that had an effect on her.wat should i do??i really need her!!
2006-12-26 07:29:47 · 17 answers · asked by fabrice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find a girl that is SLIMMER (girls hate this ) than her,to pretend she is your new girlfreind,better looking if possible, IF ??? she has any feelings for you, this will test her....you will get a reaction,ie if it makes her mad,and jelious etc ( no respose means your peee in d wind ) OK :-) Riky
2006-12-26 07:40:04 · answer #1 · answered by rikyandnina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...sounds like she wants a open relationship with other people. Some people get bored with their relationships and wants to move on, until they realize that the person that they left for turns out to be a jerk, she will probably go back to you if he is a jerk. How long have you guys been dating...? if it wasnt long, you should really get her off your mind and move on. You should ask her how she would feel if you dated another girl. But it sounds like she doesnt want to be with you anymore. From the way she sounds, she thinks shes to good for you.
2006-12-26 07:39:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard as you obviously really care about her, but if she has turned you down twice now, maybe it is time to move on. Leave the ball in her court, she knows how you feel, don't contact her anymore, give her time to think. If she really does care she'll call you or make contact, otherwise, try to move on, it may not feel like it at the moment, but I'm sure the perfect girl for you is out there somewhere.
2006-12-26 07:36:22 · answer #3 · answered by Cherry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you should just go on to see other girls. It's like she is playing you like a puppet. She wants to keep you on a string until she is ready to be with you. She's not even worth your time. Move on you'll find someone out there that is 10 times better than she will ever be.
2006-12-26 07:35:30 · answer #4 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, your present day lady buddy could or will possibly no longer have a element. evaluate this: how could you sense in case your present day lady buddy became passing a while with an ex boyfriend? regardless of in case you're able to think of it somewhat is advantageous she would not, and area of loving a individual is thinking what makes them sense uncomfortable and doing the different. changing and doing issues that yet another guy or woman likes would not unavoidably advise which you're changing who you're; it basically potential which you're taking yet another persons emotions, likes, or dislikes into attention. (often whilst in a relationship which includes this, it somewhat is the case) My suggestion: shrink your touch with your ex lady buddy. Your ex lady buddy is on your previous and your present day lady buddy is your present day. Am no longer asserting or suggesting you're able to brush aside your ex lady buddy altogether yet your ex could be dealt with a similar way you're able to deal with yet another guy buddy. (it may strictly basically be friendship from afar; given the historic previous you men have with one yet another.) desire issues artwork out, and that i desire this suggestion helped.
2016-10-28 10:07:10 · answer #5 · answered by doti 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she wants to be with you but wants to date other guys too, she thinks by being with one person she is missin out. i would try and move on because she is holding u back, she keeps pulling u back by telling u things but when u go back, she doesnt want u.shes making u hang on for her and its not fair on u, while shes out dating, you are waiting for her,why? she is using u until she thinks she has someone better ,then she will just drop u.
2006-12-26 07:37:36 · answer #6 · answered by blank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-03-02 00:44:54 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has to change her own mind. Do you want her to be with you if she's not happy? That's not going to make you happy in the long run either.
2006-12-26 07:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by Fumblefoots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, she had her chance with you. And quit acting like a big wussy! Women don't like wussy guys.
2006-12-26 07:36:36 · answer #9 · answered by mvas800 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need her? !!! do you realise how pathetic you sound, get a grip, maybe if you get some balls and started acting like a man and not a big ***** she might want you back
2006-12-26 07:34:58 · answer #10 · answered by Delete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋