Family & Relationships - 26 December 2006

It started many years ago in school, when we were close friends. Nothing ever came out of our past because we did not want to ruin our friend ship. Many years later we meet again and because of the industry we are in we work closely together. It went from small comments to innocent flirting to we kissed one day. It has never went any further, so why the attraction?

2006-12-26 08:13:28 · 33 answers · asked by I Wish I Knew 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It seems men are more enthusiatic towards sex..why is it the mens body has any extra sexual harmons are what?

2006-12-26 08:12:29 · 13 answers · asked by md m 2 in Singles & Dating

This break up would be seemingly out of the blue as we seem, at least on the surface, to get along. I dread breaking up, but I would also dread staying together forever.

2006-12-26 08:12:04 · 8 answers · asked by Willamena 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 08:11:53 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is quite common with me. Often times I will take either a comment, or some kind of action personally and I will often think that anyone (even the nicer of people) are trying to hurt me. I don't know what I can do that will help me to not take things so personally. I've tried to tell myself that nothing is wrong, but I keep thinking back to those moments. What can I do to help myself to see things in a better light?

2006-12-26 08:11:46 · 8 answers · asked by ravensfan172003 3 in Friends

I'm 25 yrs. old and went on a date with a very nice girl (25 yrs. old) about two or three weeks ago. She's a high school art teacher and studying for her master's. So, she's gotta be busy as hell. She told me she'd get back to me on another night to meet. I gave up on her last night and all of a sudden I receive an email today from her apologizing and asking if I would still like to do something together. I really felt a chance to get close with her last time and she suggested a movie. How do I get close with her in a movie? I would like to kiss her if possible. Also, I've noticed she hasn't been on jdate in almost two weeks. Is it possible she's only looking for a friend? Or, is she possibly interested in me a potential mate?

2006-12-26 08:11:35 · 9 answers · asked by justellemJimsaidhello 1 in Singles & Dating

is this a sign that I should dump him? we're not really serious, but I've called maybe 3 times over the breal already. am I being a pest. is he the type that likes his space and likes to be left alone? does he like me? i'm confused

2006-12-26 08:11:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with this guy for 1 1/2 yrs. and I was heartbroken when I found out he cheated on me. I ended the relationship but i can't seem to stop missing him. I am in love with him and thought he was the ONE. We had even talked about getting married. Is it possible to forgive him or will that always be between us? Should I move on? Has anyone been in this situation? Need help cuz I am miserable.

2006-12-26 08:11:16 · 13 answers · asked by meb06 1 in Singles & Dating

He said..
"I think you're awesome, you're a little different from everyone else, but that's what makes you awesome."
We're quite close and he talks to me openly about his life and stuff. He's also bi, but he always hugs me and jokingly says he loves me.

I'm just wondering what he means by all this?

2006-12-26 08:10:48 · 24 answers · asked by Hitomi 2 in Singles & Dating

I am divored and remarried. When I remarried I filled out papers to change my beneficiary on my life insurance and 401 from my Ex to my current husband. They still have not made this change. I am in the process of doing this again, but is my current husband protected if I should die before this change occurs?
Thanks!

2006-12-26 08:10:41 · 4 answers · asked by vgirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was going through my boyfriend phone last year and he was writting freaky things to other girls he said they were just friends. I dont trust him at all and he has a block on his phone where I can I cant get in it at all.

2006-12-26 08:10:01 · 10 answers · asked by Bronz Beauty 1 in Singles & Dating

Do they if it was the wrong time but the right place-> ie.-> summer.. If both have matured and begun to talk again.. could those feelings for her come back??

2006-12-26 08:09:31 · 26 answers · asked by sugarbaby 1 in Singles & Dating

I sometimes get sad at christmas and I think its because growing up in my house it was just bad sometimes. I have tried to like christmas but it just brings back very bad memories and fear sometimes no matter how or what I try to do.

2006-12-26 08:09:28 · 17 answers · asked by snoopy22564 4 in Family

"Hi
Recently me and my husband with our attorneys made a final agreement
and it was notarized. Dividing up money and items. In the agreement he
was suppose to pick up all his things by December 15th. I gave him 8 days
to pick from. 3 times he never showed up. The agreement says it can not
be altered or changed. Do I have to let him come and get his things,
even though it is now past the time limit which he had 30 days prior to
the 15th to pick it up and made appointments to get it but always at the
last minute he changed the day or the time and never showed up. The judge has not granted the final divorce which will be in 2 or 3 weeks
Thanks"

2006-12-26 08:09:27 · 10 answers · asked by willalbert 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Read my profile, and take a look at my pics. If you could describe me in just a few words or a short phrase, what would it be and why??? Let's say I was gonna have this written on a cute girlie t-shirt, what should it read? And would there be any pictures on the shirt???

Be creative people!

2006-12-26 08:09:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my guy friend has been ignoring me ever since he got a new girl friend. how come? any idias y?

2006-12-26 08:08:39 · 13 answers · asked by Moses 2 in Friends

This guy (37 yrs old) has been not much more than a bootie call to me (35 yrs old) for about 1 month. When I tried to give some substance to the "relationship" in hopes that maybe things could become not too serious but a little less superficial and primitive between us, he becomes thoughtless, and in my view disrespectful, not keeping dates, etc. SO, I dump him, told him that since he couldn't at least keep his word to me to "have a nice life",. He texted/replied the next day with nothing more than - "OK." So, I'm like Fine!!! Forget him! And from then on, I didn't once look back for his sorry a**!
The day after Christmas, guess who texts me with a "Merry Christmas" - yes, Mr. Sorry Jackass! Now, before, he would never fight to keep me, he was ready to dump me in a minute when sex wasn't "fun" for him anymore!! He was too busy being a jerk to get to know me.
So my question is - what is it he wants and why the heck is he contacting me now?

2006-12-26 08:07:15 · 10 answers · asked by Cutie girl 1 in Singles & Dating

First off I have to explain the hole sistuation.. on my b day my husban asked me what I wanted to do for my b day. I told him that I really didn't want to do a whole lot for my b day, as I just had a baby not that long ago, and have been sleep deprived and not feeling well. So on my b day my husban goes to work, comes home, and was home for about an hour, tells me happy b day and heads out with the "guys" to go and party. I was heart broken. He didn't come home till 1 am. His excuse was becasue i told him i didn't feel like doing much, he took it as i didn't want to do any thing, and there for thought it was ok to leave me completly alone on my b day. I was very upset over this and haven't really forgive him for it....

2006-12-26 08:07:02 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how can talk romantic to my boyfriend over the phone without getting embarrased?

2006-12-26 08:06:20 · 2 answers · asked by Jan l 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why?

2006-12-26 08:06:01 · 7 answers · asked by yllkk 1 in Family

I started dating this guy when I was 17 and was with him for 7 years, 4 of which we were engaged. A year and a half ago I broke up with him because I felt that we weren't in love with each other anymore. He begged me not to go, but I did anyway. I started dating a close friend of mine way too soon and broke my ex's heart. We still talk on occasion even though he's seeing someone and I'm still with the guy I started seeing after the split. I really miss him and would love to see if maybe we could make things work. He sent me a text first thing Christmas morning and wished me a Merry Christmas, but as soon as I invited him over to my parents for a drink, I didn't hear back from him. Do you think this is something that we should try to work out or have I destroyed what we once had forever? I can't picture my life without him in it, but he's so hard to communicate with. He won't give me the chance to tell him how I feel. I almost feel as if I deserve to suffer because I hurt him. =(

2006-12-26 08:05:35 · 9 answers · asked by geminiqtpie22 5 in Singles & Dating

I admitted to my hubby that I had cheated on him once over a year and half ago, now what do I do. I don't know if I should drop it and never talk about it again or what? I know I am the one who screwed up but we are going to try to work things out and I want to make things as easy for him as possible. I love him dearly.

2006-12-26 08:03:30 · 35 answers · asked by Dizzy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We're getting married this coming New Year's Eve. She says she will give us 300.00 to help out with the food costs. And now she says she can't help us because she dosent have the money. What makes me more upset is that she has invited 12 people from her job to the wedding. I don't even know who these people are. Would it be wrong for me to say not to invite them now?

2006-12-26 08:03:26 · 23 answers · asked by Dana 2 in Weddings

I'm almost 15 1/2 and this boy is 17 and wont turn 18 until late june. Keep in mind I have known this boy for over a year and we are now in the high school together. I am a freshmen and he is a junior. We have no intentions of having sex right now. I would like opinions, even if your not a parent.

2006-12-26 08:02:59 · 18 answers · asked by valda 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been together for a yr and a half
he keeps saying he will divorce, they dont
live together, children are grown, but he does still go their on hoildays swears they are
not initmate, I love him but Im tired of feeling like #2 im a widow and he is the first person to make me feel like life is worth living again, im afarid if i stop seeing him i will sink into a depression again,

2006-12-26 08:00:22 · 67 answers · asked by streaker77777 2 in Marriage & Divorce

A store that sells new husbands has just opened in New York City, where a woman may go to choose a husband.

Among the instructions at the entrance is a description of how the store operates: "You may visit this store ONLY ONCE! There are six floors and the value of the products increases as the shopper ascends the flights. The shopper may choose any item from a particular floor, or may choose to go up to the next floor, but you cannot go back down except to exit the building!"

So, a woman goes to the store to find a husband. On the first floor the sign reads: "These men Have Jobs". The second floor sign reads: These men Have Jobs and Love Kids". The third floor sign reads: "These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, and are Extremely Good Looking."

"Wow," she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going.

At the fourth floor the sign reads: "These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Good Looking and Help With Housework."

"Oh, mercy me!" she exclaims, "I can hardly stand it!"

Still, she goes to the fifth floor and the sign reads: "These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Gorgeous, Help with Housework, and Have a Strong Romantic Streak." She is so tempted to stay, but she goes to the sixth floor and the sign reads: "You are visitor 31,456,012 to this floor. There are no men on this floor. This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible to please. Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store."

To avoid gender bias charges, the store's owner opens a New Wives store just across the street. It too has six floors. The first floor has wives that love sex. The second floor has wives that love sex and have money.

The third through sixth floors have never been visited.

2006-12-26 07:59:57 · 17 answers · asked by WORD UP G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Been married 5 yrs, have a lil boy who is 20 mo old....

2006-12-26 07:59:52 · 7 answers · asked by Jerry M 1 in Family

2006-12-26 07:59:42 · 13 answers · asked by brit b 1 in Singles & Dating

With out move out my wife will not give me a seperation. As long as I under she control there will be no seperation.

2006-12-26 07:59:32 · 9 answers · asked by samosasgood 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have no sex life and have tried EVERYTHING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

people judge me and call me a perv.

I just want to get laid and can't.

Its making me CRAZY.

Does ANYONE understand how that feels.

2006-12-26 07:58:55 · 7 answers · asked by kurticus1024 7 in Marriage & Divorce