I sometimes get sad at christmas and I think its because growing up in my house it was just bad sometimes. I have tried to like christmas but it just brings back very bad memories and fear sometimes no matter how or what I try to do.
2006-12-26 08:09:28 · 17 answers · asked by snoopy22564 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sometimes but I to realize that life goes on. It is not Christmas that upsets me it is what happened on Christmas that upsets me. Christmas is a day to be happy, thankful and filled with joy. Not sad, unthankful and fill with sadness. I know that times get hard when you go through hardships but remember weeping may endure for a night but joy commeth in the morning...
2006-12-26 08:16:09 · answer #1 · answered by lisababy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!!! i always get sad at Christmas. i remember all the family members that are no longer with us, and the fact the I'm single(when that's the case). however in my family Christmas has always been a happy tI'me, so i don't have bad memories about that. what i do when im feeling low is, to go shopping. it makes me feel better when i go and buy something for someone else. that cheers me up right away or watch a holiday movie, they all have happy ending and that just makes you believe in the magic of Christmas.
Try it and see if it works!!
2006-12-26 16:16:45 · answer #2 · answered by Julz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has to do with the season. Days being shorter, it gets dark sooner and other things like that it is a proven fact that alot of people suffer from depression around this time of year. Some have it worse than others though given different situations.
2006-12-26 16:37:19 · answer #3 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iam sorry you feel sad at Christmas. I to have a hard time at Christmas. My father passed away from cancer and it was in jan .I was selfish and made a dying man promise to stick around so holidays wouldnt be hard. Guess what they still are..I lost him in92. it still is a struggle .
2006-12-27 01:52:55 · answer #4 · answered by DeAnn M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people do. I usually do because I miss my dad, he passed away 7 years ago and my best friend she passed away 10 years ago, that is why having family and friends around to celebrate the holidays with is important, when I'm around them I don't think about people I lost as much as i do when I'm alone.
2006-12-26 16:14:40 · answer #5 · answered by shambuca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people get very sad during X-Mas because of something tragic that had happen before in there life during that season.
2006-12-26 16:13:16 · answer #6 · answered by lilangel_purple@yahoo.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get sad because when i was 14 my dad passed away. I have four children now and he never got to see them. He was a good dad and I know that he would have been a good papaw to them.
2006-12-27 11:47:22 · answer #7 · answered by happyme19672003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think a lot of people do however it's up to you to change that by re-creating something for yourself that is wonderful so you can continue to reinforce postive vibes around that time of year. no one's christmas is complete without some drama and dysfunction tho so take it with a grain of salt !
2006-12-26 16:11:51 · answer #8 · answered by bbq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do kinda understand. well i mean my parents divorced when i was little and even though i see them both its still not really the same. just try to get past it and make new and better memories! have a great new year.
2006-12-26 16:12:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a very sad and stressful time for a lot of people..
2006-12-26 16:11:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋