This guy (37 yrs old) has been not much more than a bootie call to me (35 yrs old) for about 1 month. When I tried to give some substance to the "relationship" in hopes that maybe things could become not too serious but a little less superficial and primitive between us, he becomes thoughtless, and in my view disrespectful, not keeping dates, etc. SO, I dump him, told him that since he couldn't at least keep his word to me to "have a nice life",. He texted/replied the next day with nothing more than - "OK." So, I'm like Fine!!! Forget him! And from then on, I didn't once look back for his sorry a**!
The day after Christmas, guess who texts me with a "Merry Christmas" - yes, Mr. Sorry Jackass! Now, before, he would never fight to keep me, he was ready to dump me in a minute when sex wasn't "fun" for him anymore!! He was too busy being a jerk to get to know me.
So my question is - what is it he wants and why the heck is he contacting me now?
2006-12-26 08:07:15 · 10 answers · asked by Cutie girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I won't sweat it. He's just trying to get a reaction from you. I would ignore him. If he really wants to be with you, he would call or visit instead of sending a lame text message.
OR...he could want to wish you a Merry Christmas and nothing else.
I would not read too much into in.
2006-12-26 08:13:21 · answer #1 · answered by JAD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 01:17:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, I'm afraid I see another question you may need to ask more.
Why do you care?
You're already mad at him, you've told yourself you've written him off (though your current reaction indicates otherwise), you don't want anything mroe to do with him (at least conciously)... so, perhaps, if you find out why you can't just look at that message, chuckle, delete it, then move on to the next topic at hand, you can figure out what it is you really want to ask.
Sounds like it may be something mroe like:
"He did this and I did this and then he did this... should I respond? And if so, with what?"
or
"Should I find out what he wants? Or should I just forget it... this frustrates me quite a lot so I still have some feelings for him. What do I do now?"
What do you think?
2006-12-26 08:15:27 · answer #3 · answered by stevegoryan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is contacting to wish you a merry christmas. Shame on you for bieng such a grinch.
The proper and polite responce would be "merry christmas to you too" and thats it.
If he texts you again then you would be right in not responding.
I hope you get all your presents replaced with bags of coal.
2006-12-26 08:11:45 · answer #4 · answered by bluto blutarsky2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know you need to rock the boat, but you're afraid to make a move. You may have to take action soon, or you could lose the chance. Go ahead, make waves. You'll regret it more if you don't.
2006-12-26 08:13:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can stir you up that much by texting "Merry Christmas," and I am not saying this to make you angry, plz get counselling.
You have an anger problem.
2006-12-26 08:15:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't get too worked up. It was only "merry christmas", nothing else.
2006-12-26 08:11:53 · answer #7 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His new booty has left and he's going back to some older booty for a quick get your rocks off moment
2006-12-26 08:10:36 · answer #8 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because he knows you'll be there. Just like the time you're wasting on it right now.
2006-12-26 08:12:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to keep you so he can use you for sex. I suggest you ignore him. If he didn't want to get to know you before, he won't want to now.
2006-12-26 08:11:22 · answer #10 · answered by liv 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋