Family & Relationships - 26 December 2006

2006-12-26 07:45:42 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Confused about this? i was wondering if anyone can help me with a prob i have... well the thing is i met this guy and now where dating for awhile but he has a brother and everytime i see me or he sees me-he makes sures im looking at him and giving him attention. Well I dont know its seems wierd too wierd for me to treat me like this, i mean everytime we go to a club or something he comes by and gives me a long hug as if he didnt want to let go--and inside im thinnking whats going on? is it me thats being silly or is he showing me some affection towards me---spending the holidays--well he makes sure hes sitting superly close to me and talks to me and makes sure im looking at him--- hmm ? wierd. And i dyed my hair and he noticed and commented me right a way. Strange... and there was gossip from my bfs friends -they said that --the brother is jealous of my bf dating me and they said he wished i was his instead of my bf--does anyone think there is something there besides NICE GUY!!????
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Well hes nice, he travels alot- I consider him as a friend but nothing else because it would be just very not proper. But I think that the "brother" is giving me more attention than my bf, my relationship isnt too beautiful-he makes me feel as if im not worth anything-i had a goal to go be a fashion designer-he tells me that its not me-i have looks to be a model-he tells me not to do it- and i feel un special by him-more special by the "brother"
i dont know if i wanna say this but he barely kisses me---no making out nothing!! i know its not based on this but like constanly hes sleeping or playing with the cats and no attention for me-and i just want to run away--his brother travels from one side of the world to the other-is so fun and so on and on but i just dont know what to do--im sooo sad-it doesnt matter to me any more that he likes me or he doesnt but i just WISH "BOYFRIEND" WOULD have the personality that the brother has:(

2006-12-26 07:44:35 · 15 answers · asked by Misia 1 in Singles & Dating

my bestfriend LOVES this boy and he gave her a false phone number...i told that means to back off but she won't listen...she stalks him everyday...what should i tell her to get her to stop?

2006-12-26 07:44:28 · 23 answers · asked by i ♥ Javon!!! 1 in Friends

Assuming science rules, motivations are usually centered upon reproductive success strategies. These change as the situation changes - few women would care as much now if her male was physically aggressive to threats as they would have before, say, fire. So the prototypical American situation - or western society - how does it go? Is visual first, or knowledge of money, et cetera? Are women more likely statistically to prefer generous men, or more predictable, and usually successful, selfish men? Now that survival is not so hard, do women want men not much more intelligent than them, so they will not be overwhlemed, (ego thing,) or do they still go for the most intelligent man? Is it less about childbirth now? What are the strongest lasting influences on her determination of her optimal mate?

Please, no broad strokes. Give as much detail as you can. If you've got reliable, SCIENTIFIC sites, please list them. Thank you very much; happy holidays (maybe, if you celebrate).
Take care!

2006-12-26 07:44:27 · 3 answers · asked by ergonomia 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 07:43:37 · 8 answers · asked by Luis F 1 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever wished that you could just spend the rest of your life with someone? Who would it be? Do you think it could actually happen?

2006-12-26 07:43:12 · 30 answers · asked by CUTIE 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 07:43:06 · 19 answers · asked by Luis 4 in Singles & Dating

Heya im 13!

There's this boy who's 14 and like i fancie him loads and loads and have done 4 ages. We r good mates and every1 thought he fancied me. Bout a month ago got his msn addy and he told me he fancied me. he asked me 2 the cinema's and i sed no cause i was in a rubbish mood.

He told all my mates i'd sed no and he seemed really upset. Then 3 days later i found out he has got a 16 year old girlfrend now!

evry1 thinks he still fancies me................................ even i do a bit. He still talks 2 me and smiles and waves and sometimes even blushes wen i smile at him. He also keeps bringing up silly little things from conversations we had wen we were still in luv!

I still luv him 2 death... no 1 else fancies me and never has and he is sooooo gawjus!!!!!!!!!! wat do i do!

fankoo

2006-12-26 07:42:54 · 9 answers · asked by imrocintheworld 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 07:41:54 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I smoke cigarettes. I know it's bad for me and I do want to quit eventually....

My boyfriend and I started datingabout 3 months ago. He knew I smoked when he met me he said it was OK when I asked him....slowly he started getting on me about it and thats fine too because I know he cares about me & i stopped doing it in front of him.... but then we started arguing and now I feel it's coming to an ultimatum. If it is going to come to this, do I have a right to be angry that he is demanding I change this about myself?

I dont want to tell him OK I will stop and then somewhere down the road I know I am not ready so I start again and then I will have lied to him. What is the best way to handle this?

2006-12-26 07:41:34 · 8 answers · asked by akiastatz 3 in Singles & Dating

now she wants space and wants me to trust her and jsut let ehr have her own life. we live together and she doesnt want to move out but i feel it getting closer and closer to losing her. I need to to get my **** together before its to late. we were fine for a while but she went away for 6 weeks for work and made 2 male friends (coworkers) now one of them bought her a kind of expensive x-mas present and i went off on her. she said it only a gift and they are ONLY friends she told ehr friend about it and told her not to tell me because I would flip out I found out about it. I found out anyway and now i have feel like ****. How do i get over feling like this and how do I still live with her and give her the space she is asking for.

2006-12-26 07:40:28 · 14 answers · asked by r o 1 in Singles & Dating

We actually have someone willing to watch the kids for us while we enjoy the new year. We live in Atlanta. What can we do without spending way too much?

2006-12-26 07:40:16 · 1 answers · asked by Nikki J 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

if u had 2 mp3 players would you let ur step moms brother have it for $40 or would you keep it and have 1 at each of ur parents house?

2006-12-26 07:39:34 · 7 answers · asked by **Sam**[[loves someone special]] 2 in Family

He said it was because he wasn't married to her mother wnen she was born. The purpose was so the girl could use his last name. Has anyone ever heard of this. It doesn't sound true.

2006-12-26 07:39:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My partner does not trust me in any way shape or form and yet i have really given her no reason to distrust me on the other hand ( and this is not a load of crap!)
She isolates me from her friends and sometimes after we argue ( which she mostly starts!) goes over to their places and stays all night....

Is she back-footing me because she is the one with something to hide?.

Thats what i often think...I know or feelthis sounds fairly lame but the old saying in my case is true "love is blind" or is she like many others insecure.

What advice or opinion can any people provide please would be greatly appreciated..

2006-12-26 07:39:19 · 49 answers · asked by Adrian 4 in Singles & Dating

...like take it in the caboose?

2006-12-26 07:38:57 · 20 answers · asked by teeyodi 2 in Singles & Dating

Awhile ago my ex went to jail for violating a protective order. I really didn't need the order and set him up on the violation of it. He never actually violated the order.

Anyway when he went before the judge she hammered him simply based on my testimony she gave him a 2 year sentence 730 consecutive days in jail. I never had a clue that he'd get more than 30 days. He's out of Jail now, and I was standing in line at the post office, waiting for this guy to get finished with his business, when he turned around so i could move up to the counter I noticed it was my ex.

What concerns me is, when he was sentenced and as he was being led from the courtroom he turned and said Biatch when you least expect it i'll be there. Should i fear for my life, or just blow it off as an idle threat.

2006-12-26 07:38:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my parents keep fighting then make up then fight again i think this may be affecting my little brothers and sister as well as myself what do you guys think i should do?

2006-12-26 07:38:26 · 7 answers · asked by rockinbeauty 1 in Family

I need one.

2006-12-26 07:38:00 · 16 answers · asked by kurticus1024 7 in Marriage & Divorce

And her name has something to do with SATAN. She has only been on Y!A for 4 days and I believe she needs to be taught a lesson!

Any suggestions?

2006-12-26 07:37:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we dated before, and he broke up w/me then to go out with another girl. he said he wanted me back so, i decided to give him another chance after a couple of weeks had went by. after he broke up w/me i found out that he drank, when he told me that he didn't. i asked him about this and he said he didn't want me to think any less of him b/c he drinks every once in a while, which is the reason why he didn't tell me. he said that he could quit drinking just to have me back, so i believed that he would. i saw a message he left on a friends myspace that said he was drunk and that he loved me so much. this was before i took him back, but after he had sent the message to me saying he could stop drinking to have me back. i don't know if i should ask him about it or not. what should i do?

2006-12-26 07:37:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean what kind of talking is more effective and with 100% positive result
please show me the very new way

2006-12-26 07:37:02 · 9 answers · asked by smartanytime 1 in Singles & Dating

does it mean that they hornie or just want to release some pressure?

2006-12-26 07:36:15 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 07:36:11 · 9 answers · asked by Luis F 1 in Singles & Dating

My In-laws and my husband is very nice but my problem is my Sister in law she is financially poor she stays withe me from past 1 year , she has 2 daughters both of them are very destructive . Her husband works some where else. My problem is can't say anything to her daughter bcoz of my Mother in law....and i can't tolerate them anymore what t do now...please suggest...

2006-12-26 07:35:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

there is this guy I like but I get nervous when I talk to him so I text him and he used to text back then we talked on the phone a couple time but then when I text him again he just wouldn't text back why is this and what should i do and by the way we both like each other and plan to go out one weekend but why has he changed

2006-12-26 07:35:42 · 3 answers · asked by katie 4 in Singles & Dating

Everytime my bestfriend says hi to me she grabs my boobs and it's really starting to get on my nerves, I confronted her once about it nicely and she stopped for awhile then like last month she started doing it again. What is a nice way to tell her how I feel about this? I dont want to break -up our friendship over something so little and stupid.

2006-12-26 07:35:15 · 19 answers · asked by La'Kita 1 in Friends

Cause I'm single, for a while now, at least a year, and honestly, I'm pretty happy, but for some reason I think that maybe girls would think I'm weird or something for not having a girlfriend, and for a while....thoughts?

2006-12-26 07:34:57 · 24 answers · asked by maneone22 2 in Singles & Dating

Im a virgin and getting married. Im wearing ivory(very lightly colored, actually like a 'candlelight'. It looked better on me that white and I love it. I don't want ppl in my church to think im not a virgin. I know this shouldnt matter, but it does. What do you think?

2006-12-26 07:34:53 · 37 answers · asked by nonamegirl 2 in Weddings

me and one of my family members are dating should i end it....

2006-12-26 07:33:08 · 13 answers · asked by i ♥ Javon!!! 1 in Friends