Awhile ago my ex went to jail for violating a protective order. I really didn't need the order and set him up on the violation of it. He never actually violated the order.
Anyway when he went before the judge she hammered him simply based on my testimony she gave him a 2 year sentence 730 consecutive days in jail. I never had a clue that he'd get more than 30 days. He's out of Jail now, and I was standing in line at the post office, waiting for this guy to get finished with his business, when he turned around so i could move up to the counter I noticed it was my ex.
What concerns me is, when he was sentenced and as he was being led from the courtroom he turned and said Biatch when you least expect it i'll be there. Should i fear for my life, or just blow it off as an idle threat.
2006-12-26 07:38:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
U deserve whatever happens to you whether he causes it or not. You and others like you are the reason so many who are ACTUALLY abused or harassed or stalked or any other variation of these offenses have to jump through so many hoops to prove their claims or can't get protection by law for help...
You should be very ashamed of yourself, and get some professional head therapy. Be more worried that you are crazy than whether or not he threatened you and will make good on it.
2006-12-26 07:54:26 · answer #1 · answered by hjfr27 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow!! You were WAY out of line having this person serve time for "not actually violating an order" The fact that you stated "you really didn't need the order" is so destructive to another human being. Your ex may not have been a choir boy... but woman like you make it very difficult for other woman who actually need the law on their side for situations where a protective order is necessary.
You also placed this man in a situation where he now has a criminal record and has become a blight to society. What the heck is wrong with you? Even if you thought he was going to get 30 days... that in and of itself is bad enough when it's not deserved. Can you give him back the two years (730 consecutive days) that he lost?
How would you feel if that were you?
Hopefully he won't harm you... but having a person spend any time whatsoever in jail (especially) when you knew they didn't deserve to be there is very devestatingly cruel. I'm sure it caused some damage to his spirit. You truly need to ask him and God to forgive you then you need to find out legally if there's anyway you can have his record espounged based on the fact that you lied.
You know what... you'll probably reap what you have sown. In other words... what goes around, comes around.... Wow!
That's just crazy and sad!
2006-12-26 16:04:23 · answer #2 · answered by 247 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares! He did time because you broke the law and committed perjury. YOU should have been the one doing time, not him. You screwed up his life for your own benefit, whatever that was. Yeah you should be scared. You deserve to be scared.
It sounds like his premonition came true. You didn't expect it and he was there. Serves you right if you are scared. Deal with it. Your fear won't be near what he has gone through being convicted of a felony he didn't commit and being locked away from society for two years. Now he is out and is labeled as an ex con and probably has a hard time finding a decent job and has to live with the stigma. You will get your just rewards.
2006-12-26 15:52:53 · answer #3 · answered by PDH 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I didn't quit understand the first part..Did you say you sent him to jail when he actually didn't do anything wrong? If you made this make go to jail when he didn't deserve to then girl you have a damn problem...What the real question is how can you live with yourself? What is wrong with you? Hell yeah you should be scared...If some body did that to me, I would hope for their sake that I would never find them b/c it would not be pretty that is for sure!!!
You should be ashamed of yourself!!!
2006-12-26 15:51:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yours will be another one of those questions/answers that I will print out and make sure that I give to my sons. You see, I want them to have some idea of just how people can be in life. YOU are a perfect example of just how so many women in life are and what my sons need to be aware of and avoid.
TY, for very possibly helping me help my sons find a good mate, and just as importantly, helping them in recognizing what to stay far from or eliminate from consideration as a mate.
Frankly, I would love to find out your personal information and be able to take this post of yours and get it to the judge. You are admitting publically that you lied under oath. I would also think that your ex could sue you civily with this admission and what you have cost him after doing so.
You know, one of these days when you least expect it, life itself is going to force you to face just how, who, what you have been and it will extract a price. Remember that. For it is coming just as surely as anything. Maybe in the throws of what you suffer at that time, this will flood your mind and you will see.
By the way, ty for also serving as living proof in regards to what I say about women in general and some in particular. That the best they ever are is horrid. They only get worse from there.
2006-12-26 15:59:11 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
id be a little concerned.i guess judge bassed on how he reacted to seeing you in the post office.i hope this does not upset you but there are women out there who realy need these orders and because of false alarms these orders are often poopooped by officials.i hope you can apologize to him in some way maybe that would cool any heet.sorry to be so honest but ive known women who have had real problems with violence and officers just turn away saying its prob fake she is just trying to get back at him.hope you are ok and keep safe if he was violent to you before it can escalate if he feels wronged.but if this was just to get back at him remeber you took 2 years of his life away not easy to swallow,still not an excuse for violence.be careful
this is to mr jw i agree with almost all said in your response,she should be taken to court for perjury and false imprisonment but woman are not all evil,obviously you like woman or you wouldnt have kids.i do not agree with what was done to this man in any way,but you have some unresolved issues with woman sorry the ones you encountered were so bad but there is evil in every race,sex,nationality,etc.. but there is also good.i have been one of the good women out there put up with alot of crap.thankfully my man has changed and he blesses me everyday for giving him a chance to change.i feel for the woman you are with and if we are so bad maybe you should consider switching sexuality.
2006-12-26 15:48:37 · answer #6 · answered by jessiebella677 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wow.....I would be pretty mad if i did nothing and was thrown in jail....Why did you do that? I don't know....2 years is a long time for not breaking an order. Do you feel guilty at all....maybe it is guilt that is making you so nervous,
2006-12-26 15:44:14 · answer #7 · answered by Army Love 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What would YOU do if someone lied in court and got you jailed? Yep, a liar like you should definitely be afraid.
2006-12-26 15:51:01 · answer #8 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think any one can tell u to be afraid of this guy or not. since he was ur ex u know him and what gets him mad. also u only know why u broke up with him plus the question should be--What r u going to do about that? u probably need to tell the police that he threaten u. they should know what to do.
2006-12-26 15:45:34 · answer #9 · answered by JANE 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What you did was horribly wrong. And you will pay for that at some point in your life if you do not make amends's. As far as being afraid of him. Only you know for sure if he is capable of hurting you. God bless****
2006-12-26 15:45:18 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋