Heya im 13!
There's this boy who's 14 and like i fancie him loads and loads and have done 4 ages. We r good mates and every1 thought he fancied me. Bout a month ago got his msn addy and he told me he fancied me. he asked me 2 the cinema's and i sed no cause i was in a rubbish mood.
He told all my mates i'd sed no and he seemed really upset. Then 3 days later i found out he has got a 16 year old girlfrend now!
evry1 thinks he still fancies me................................ even i do a bit. He still talks 2 me and smiles and waves and sometimes even blushes wen i smile at him. He also keeps bringing up silly little things from conversations we had wen we were still in luv!
I still luv him 2 death... no 1 else fancies me and never has and he is sooooo gawjus!!!!!!!!!! wat do i do!
fankoo
2006-12-26 07:42:54 · 9 answers · asked by imrocintheworld 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's with someone else, keep your hands off of him until they are no longer an item. Then, go for it with all you're worth.
2006-12-26 07:45:50 · answer #1 · answered by hottie_spaniard 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, okay: In my opinion, which probably isn't that good, he is only with the 16 year old to make you feel jealous. You can either do one of two things: as they are together, leave them. If he is with her only to make you jealous, it won't last.
Alternatively, you can catch him alone, and declare your love. I don't know whether this would be good, but if you sound sincere and tell him how much you love him, explain the situation about why you disagreed to go to the cinema (as long as it wasn't ages ago) and say that you know that he was upset, and that you'd love to be with him, etc., he might agree and ask you out. If he does, say yes! I ain't answering this again!
I personally think that the latter is a little weird, and that you should avoid it, but it's your choice, so go for it if you want.
Also, as above, I think that it is a crush, and "love" is putting at little too strong, however, if you want to call it that, go ahead.
2006-12-26 09:53:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie there's no love in a 14 year old boys heart sure he might fancie you, but your too young to be sayin the L word, only heartbreak comes to a girl your age I should know I thought I was in love at 13 and I got my heart smashed into a million pieces. Just enjoy being young If he has a 16 year old girlfriend and hes still trying to get at you hes not worth your time hes what we like to call a player. Do what you think is right in your heart and always hold on to your innocense until your truly ready for a real relationship. good luck to ya babe
2006-12-26 07:50:41 · answer #3 · answered by kandi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I reckon he's only going out with the 16 year old to make you feel jealous. You need to tell him that you were in a bad mood when you refused his offer and that you really wish you'd have said yes. Just make sure he knows how you feel. Good luck xx
2006-12-26 07:46:21 · answer #4 · answered by ~Grace~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhh, I rememeber all this rubbish when I was a wee bairn too. Firstly, I doubt you are in love homey, but you like him, I get that.
If he has a girlfriend then the thing you SHOULD do is step back and let them get on with it, how long is it going to last anyway?
2006-12-26 07:46:23 · answer #5 · answered by CHARISMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically be a good chum. and don't attempt to return between him and his girlfrend - he will basically resent you for that. Eventuall, if this is not meant to be together with his lady chum, they're going to destroy up. then you certainly can take issues to the subsequent point, in case you nonetheless like him.
2016-11-23 18:14:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he fancies a snog. Take it from there.
2006-12-26 07:49:25 · answer #7 · answered by breedgemh_101 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just continue to be his friend. :)
2006-12-26 07:47:22 · answer #8 · answered by dottidal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out.
2006-12-26 07:47:14 · answer #9 · answered by OB the Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋